I'm a man and have came across this sight when looking for various advice the past couple of years. Me and my partner of ten years split up around 18 months ago.
Around 3 months ago I met a woman on a dating site and having been speaking with her since. However she's blowing really hot and cold and at this point I'm not sure if she's interested.
She was very responsive when we first started speaking, but now I will message her wishing her a good day or asking her how she is and she often won't reply for a couple of days until I message her again asking her what she has been up to.
Now usually that would be enough for me to think she is not interested, but every few weeks she will be really chatty, funny and responsive again for a day or two, but then she will go back to hardly responding. Or when she does respond it's very lukewarm responses.
I give up and she then becomes responsive again for a day or two like clock work.
I really like her, she intrigues me. I know she's busy, she is a single mum doing her masters and working etc but she's very independent and that's what's drawn me to her. I think the more she doesn't talk to me the more I like her and want to talk.
If she's not interested why the sudden change in communication every few weeks? And what have I done that would make her keen at the start to not bothered?
Thank you