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To have a BBQ on Sunday - Yes or No?

111 replies

BarbieQuestion · 12/08/2022 23:23

Yes I'm unreasonable for lighting a BBQ and cooking food or no I am not unreasonable?

Just in a garden, no grass just hard standing.

OP posts:
justasking111 · 12/08/2022 23:24

NO enjoy if you're not too hot . Next week will be cooler

Saz12 · 12/08/2022 23:25

Where do you live?

changingroom · 12/08/2022 23:25

From a fire perspective? It's fine as long as you take the usual precautions. Not near anything flammable, lots of buckets of water/sand on standby etc.

MyLifeIsFictional · 12/08/2022 23:25

Err why not?

Greensleeves · 12/08/2022 23:26

Yes of course, as long as you're sensible. Just make sure it's supervised at all times and put out properly.

We're having a barbecue on Monday and another one on Thursday. Can't wait.

Galvanisethis · 12/08/2022 23:27

No. All fire services are asking people not to. It might be on hard standing but a small spark is enough. Your neighbours are likely be massively pissed off, too.

Brigante9 · 12/08/2022 23:40

No grass? I think you’re being ridiculous. Have buckets of water to hand if you’re bothered, but realistically, what will be set alight?

BarbieQuestion · 13/08/2022 06:38

Brigante9 · 12/08/2022 23:40

No grass? I think you’re being ridiculous. Have buckets of water to hand if you’re bothered, but realistically, what will be set alight?

Ridiculous to ask?
Ridiculous to have no grass?
Ridiculous to have a Bbq?

What do you mean? Ridiculous?

OP posts:
sittingonacornflake · 13/08/2022 06:42

@BarbieQuestion I think they mean ridiculous to ask, having read their post a few times.

InChocolateWeTrust · 13/08/2022 06:46

We are going to. We aren't in a drought area and our lawn is shaded, the grass is still totally green.

picklemewalnuts · 13/08/2022 07:09

The smoke carries sparks on the breeze to places they could cause a fire.

I really wouldn't.

picklemewalnuts · 13/08/2022 07:10

In my area we had a fire in a car park, caused by a car exhaust near the landscaping.

SpinCityBlues · 13/08/2022 07:15

picklemewalnuts · 13/08/2022 07:09

The smoke carries sparks on the breeze to places they could cause a fire.

I really wouldn't.

Yeah this ^^

It’s like a tinderbox in my garden. I’d be pretty hacked off of a stray spark set fire to it because I’ve been obeying the drought / fire risk rules and requests.

Its it worth the risk where you are? Only you can decide - but check local conditions and Fire Service requests.

stuntbubbles · 13/08/2022 07:16

If you’re in a drought area, don’t do it. Do all your neighbours have paving or do some have gardens? Those gardens will be fuel.

FlorianImogen · 13/08/2022 07:16

I wouldn't be having a bbq if you live in the south east where everywhere is tinder dry. Too risky.

AssaMarra · 13/08/2022 07:18

A garden fence caught fire from a bbq spark in our town yesterday. Fire brigade job - spread to neighbour's garden but fortunately caught before spread to houses.
But still a rare occurrence I suppose.
Personally I couldn't be outside in the heat sweating over a fire or eating roast meat. Forecast 33 for us today. Ice lollies and deli stuff here.

lightand · 13/08/2022 07:18

Is it worth the risk?

I think not personally.

PollyRockets · 13/08/2022 07:18

Why wouldn't you? Hmm

lightand · 13/08/2022 07:19

Our Council is

urging people to cease having outdoor fires at this time.

That is why not.

picklemewalnuts · 13/08/2022 07:20

I'm in east mids. The parks around here are dry and crispy. The undergrowth that's usually shoulder high and green has collapsed into straw. I live near a lake and there are areas where it's still green that would usually be bogs, the rest of it - will I'm wondering whether we'll lose some trees.

I was looking at the woods yesterday, it's almost like the smaller trees have been sacrificed to leave water for the bigger ones. Some are losing odd branches. It's very strange to look at. I've never seen it look like this.

I really wouldn't risk it, knowing the fire brigade can't get out to actual fires.

Velvian · 13/08/2022 07:25

Depends where you are. The field opposite caught fire yesterday, luckily the wind was in our favour. Several fire engines required to put it out.

One of the neighbours still had a BBQ. The smell of burning was suddenly a lot closer. I was not impressed.

Bickles · 13/08/2022 07:27

We have a gas BBQ and will be using it every day while it’s this hot. Guess a gas one is different though as not a fire risk?

notanothertakeaway · 13/08/2022 07:32

"Just because you can, doesn't mean you should"

Personally, I don't think I would have a barbecue at the moment. It feels like an unnecessary risk

Icedlatteplease · 13/08/2022 07:34

This weekend?

Just dont. It can wait surely

User639921 · 13/08/2022 07:35

I have just bought a new gas one in JL sale and will certainly be using that.