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Hosepipe ban not in force until next week. Kids Pool, wwyd?

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MrsWidgerysLodger · 12/08/2022 10:55

As per the title really, we're in Yorkshire and our hosepipe ban doesn't kick in until end August. DD has been asking to have the pool out but I'm on the fence about it given all the press about water shortages etc. So Munsnetters, WWYD? Do I put the pool up for the weekend or say no?

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CapMarvel · 12/08/2022 11:23

Most of the country is in drought and people are actually asking whether they should use water to fill pools up.

For fuck sake.

MoodyTwo · 12/08/2022 11:24

So instead of filling up the pool, we fill up 2 large Tupperware tubs to splash in, in the garden
This way we're not using anywhere near the water we would in the pool and the kids keep cool

CapMarvel · 12/08/2022 11:25

Staynow · 12/08/2022 11:14

I'd do it in a heart beat. It's a drop in the ocean compared to the huge amount of water that is just plain wasted by people or is lost in leaks. We shouldn't need to be 'morally conscious' we get plenty of rain in this country. If there's not enough because we are building more and more houses without building any more reservoirs then the government/water companies need to sort that out - and they won't if they can just get away with telling people not to use it.

People need to get past this idea that water is somehow an unlimited resource.

If there is not enough water then eventually it starts being a bit annoying that you can't water your plants to water literally being rationed so that people have enough to, y'know live.

SleeplessInEngland · 12/08/2022 11:26

ClocksGoingBackwards · 12/08/2022 11:23

We're hardly building any new houses - hence the housing crisis. Very odd thing to complain about wrt a hosepipe ban.

Its a really good point actually. There’s been a huge amount of building going on in this area, there has been for a few years. I can think of 5 new estates off the top of my head that have appeared recently, all within a few miles of each other.

Gonna be honest, I don't think those 5 new estates are the reason for the hosepipe bans happening in totally different areas of the country.

ReviewingTheSituation · 12/08/2022 11:27

Hoppinggreen · 12/08/2022 11:17

I know that but if there is a hospipe ban you are allowed to fill buckets

I know that. But the OP's question was a moral one, not a legal one.

She is, as it stands, still allowed to use a hosepipe to fill the pool. The question was whether she should.

Seeing as filling with buckets vs hosepipe will use the same amount of water. The morals of it don't change according to the method of filling! Her question really is 'should I use x gallons of water when there's a shortage?'

bluescluesbluecow · 12/08/2022 11:32

if you can leave it out, leave it out.

What I do is freeze tupperware filled with water and play with the ice. You can freeze little toys in there and give them a spoon each to crack them out.
Or fill a small bucket with toys for play that way.
I know its not a paddling pool but the kids enjoy it just as much and it would ease your guilt.

if it makes you feel any better, I spend quote a bit of time bringing buckets outside from the bathtub to use 'used' water on my fruit and veg. So there are some people going above and beyond to try to counter the massive pool fillers.

gogohmm · 12/08/2022 11:35

Fill it then use the water over the next 3-4 weeks to water the garden

ParvuliThankYouDebbie · 12/08/2022 11:43

SleeplessInEngland · 12/08/2022 11:16

We're hardly building any new houses - hence the housing crisis. Very odd thing to complain about wrt a hosepipe ban.

That probably depends on where you live tbh. 17,000 houses in the local plan here. Not one new GP, school or increased hospital capacity and absolutely no change to the water supply and/or sewage. The latter of which is under so much pressure that there are regular (legal 🙄) sewage dumps in to the local coastal areas.

Sunnyqueen · 12/08/2022 11:45

I would not hesitate. Me and my kids absolutely love our pool! Full it up now and get the chemicals and lid and other bits then you won't need to empty it again.

bluescluesbluecow · 12/08/2022 11:46

ParvuliThankYouDebbie · 12/08/2022 11:16

Our hosepipe ban comes in to force today and earlier this week I received an email from the water company for this area.

The guidance specifically states that the ban is on hosepipes and sprinkler systems. It goes in to say, in the faq section, that you can use buckets or watering cans to fill paddling pools, wash cars, water plants etc. Seems ridiculous, but there you go, that’s the rules.

this is because most people will fill a small paddling pool with buckets and might not get to the top or won't bother. nobody would be able to fill the massive ones up with buckets.

but those people would use the hose anyway so

PurpleFlower1983 · 12/08/2022 11:46

We have a tiny little 4ft wide round pool for our two under 5s, we’re going to use that rather than the bigger one.

Dobbysgotthesocks · 12/08/2022 11:48

If you have a pool with chlorine or anything in it please ensure nothing can drink from it. The wildlife is really struggling and may well drink from it and become unwell.

Can I just remind people that if you can to try and leave something with clean water in outside for the birds etc as often as possible. That is absolutely not a waste of water. Try and put somewhere out of direct sunlight if possible.

Sirzy · 12/08/2022 11:50

Ds is autistic and the paddling pool is his best sensory thing at the moment. As it is now we only empty it every 2-3 weeks (keeping it covered and Milton work) and it’s only a small paddling pool with a little bit of water. but if a ban comes in then he will just have to get on with what he has in there for as long as it stays clean enough to use!

gatehouseoffleet · 12/08/2022 11:50

The guidance specifically states that the ban is on hosepipes and sprinkler systems. It goes in to say, in the faq section, that you can use buckets or watering cans to fill paddling pools, wash cars, water plants etc. Seems ridiculous, but there you go, that’s the rules

you use a lot less though when you have to carry it. I can wash the windows and mirrors on my car with one bucket of water. The rest of the car stays dirty but I can see!

Bagpuss2022 · 12/08/2022 11:56

Times like this I’m glad we have our dreaded MN “sex pond” it’s nice and cool for the DC to cool off in and no need to refill as kept clean with chlorine

SleeplessInEngland · 12/08/2022 12:10

ParvuliThankYouDebbie · 12/08/2022 11:43

That probably depends on where you live tbh. 17,000 houses in the local plan here. Not one new GP, school or increased hospital capacity and absolutely no change to the water supply and/or sewage. The latter of which is under so much pressure that there are regular (legal 🙄) sewage dumps in to the local coastal areas.

I'm all for robust infrastructure, but new houses are not the reason for the hosepipe ban. We do not need to make up more reasons to prolong the housing crisis.

Siameasy · 12/08/2022 12:13

I filled ours in June and it’s chlorinated so I’ve not had to change it. I’d probably only fill a splash type pool now, to cool down, rather than a deep one like the Bestway 6-8ft ones that we have.

SpaghettiNoodle · 12/08/2022 12:29

I would fill it up, but I’m struggling with the hosepipe van context … in my part of Yorkshire it has rained every day since the last heat wave until this week, and from Sunday is forecast to rain every day for the foreseeable. I won’t need to use my hosepipe in two weeks when the ban starts as it’s forecast to be raining… although I’ve not been to the local reservoir for a few weeks (as it’s either been too hot or too wet to walk the dog there!) so maybe it’s worse than I’m imagining. I did wonder if it was about preserving water for transporting…

If it truly mattered, surely they’d have brought the ban in sooner?!

yougotthelook · 12/08/2022 12:31

MrsWidgerysLodger · 12/08/2022 10:55

As per the title really, we're in Yorkshire and our hosepipe ban doesn't kick in until end August. DD has been asking to have the pool out but I'm on the fence about it given all the press about water shortages etc. So Munsnetters, WWYD? Do I put the pool up for the weekend or say no?

Omg just do it!
It's bloody hot and your kids are only young once!
And "morally" right?!
Morally right is whether or not you'd shag a married man, not whether or not you fill the pool!!!

RuthBrenner · 12/08/2022 12:33

You are fully aware it would be an arsehole move.

godmum56 · 12/08/2022 12:33

SpiderVersed · 12/08/2022 11:02

Yes, you do know. Of course it’s irresponsible. The question is only “do you care you’re being irresponsible?”

this

godmum56 · 12/08/2022 12:34

yougotthelook · 12/08/2022 12:31

Omg just do it!
It's bloody hot and your kids are only young once!
And "morally" right?!
Morally right is whether or not you'd shag a married man, not whether or not you fill the pool!!!

oo can you say "blinkered attitude"?

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 12/08/2022 12:35

I would do it and say that's the last time

mogtheexcellent · 12/08/2022 12:35

Im in south and filling ours up tomorrow. We will then use the water for the veg once ban is in place. Its for a playdate and dd is an only child, she's feeling quite lonely atm and we had to cancel the last two playdates due to her being ill.

godmum56 · 12/08/2022 12:36

SleeplessInEngland · 12/08/2022 12:10

I'm all for robust infrastructure, but new houses are not the reason for the hosepipe ban. We do not need to make up more reasons to prolong the housing crisis.

no but its stupid to keep building house in areas where the infrastructure is already under pressure....and I agree that this means doing big stuff like changing the popular locations for industry and employment generally

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