I have a mortgage which equates to about 50% of my homes value. I bought it with my XH 15 years ago when married, but am now divorced and on a low income, so it wasn’t a huge stretch on 2 x incomes but with just me it’s a lot. Rent would be a lot higher (maybe double for the same size house) but I would be eligible for the housing element of universal credit, whereas I don’t get any help towards my mortgage cost, despite it being interest only (I’m not paying back what I borrowed, so the mortgage will never go down, just the interest that accumulates on it which is several hundred a month).
My energy bill is likely to be £500 a month, my mortgage is £650, and I earn just over £1000 a month in my (term time only but full time hours) job. I also run a small business which I spend weekends and school holidays doing, for another couple of hundred a month.
Everything else is paid for from my tax credits and child maintenance. So that’s food and groceries, council tax of £230, car loan of £200 a month (soon paid off), petrol, clothing, water, phones/broadband, insurance (home, car, life), credit card repayments of £350 a month (from having to use credit cards to live on during leaner months) and anything else.
We haven’t had a family holiday for several years, although I could occasionally stretch to a couple of nights camping or a weekend somewhere in a travel lodge.
We do occasionally get a takeaway or go out to eat, which I’ll have to stop when the electricity bills are higher, but I would say I live a very modest lifestyle (colour my own hair, don’t have any beauty treatments etc, don’t go out evenings except for the odd coffee and cake, have basic tv package such as Netflix but no sky).
There’s definitely places I could cut back if I needed to, but mortgage, council tax and utilities will always be paid as that has long term repercussions.
Luckily my worst case scenario isn’t awful - I have to sell my house, but somewhere smaller in a less nice area, saving me £650 a month on mortgage, will probably reduce council tax and energy bills by moving somewhere smaller, and could possibly pay off some debts (car and cards) etc with a lump sum from the house to reduce outgoings further. That’s the only reason I’m not panicking tbh. If I didn’t have equity I would be shitting myself at this point.