probably being silly but would love some unbiased opinions/advice on this.
Basically, we moved into a lovely little cul de sac in september just gone where there are several families and from more or less straight away we have had various kids from each family in and out of our house to play with my ds (6).
In particular we have 3 memebers of one family approx ages 2, 5 and 6 (two younger girls and one older boy). They come round quite regularly, watch tv play with my ds and are really lovely kids, have spoken to their parents a couple of times when they have called to find their kids and when I have called at theirs to retrieve my ds. Basically have built up a relationship with these kids though their visiting and playing with my ds over the last 4 -5 months.
Today I noticed balloons go up outside the house and ;lots of cars arrive, No invite for my ds was forthcoming. we went out to my mums and came back in the afternoon, lots of cars still there and ds was asking why he hadn't been invited to party.
From my POV I would have definitely invited all 3 to any party I was having for my ds as they are his little play mates at home and he was a little bit upset and confused as to why he wasn't invited. Its possible it was just a family party (although it did not look like it as there were lots of cars) and people looking lost driving round the estate before pulling up outside....but even so.
So AIBU or do you think they were a bit mean....and more importantly I feel a bit miffed now on DS's behalf and not sure how to handle it! Help!