We are on holiday at the moment with my mum, my DSister and her family. 10 of us in all.
DH and I have been having some problems lately so we had a talk before leaving both about our problems and what we would both do to try and help them/at least avoid arguments while here.
DH has decided that this week was the week to give up smoking so has been pretty grumpy at points, during our chat i asked if while on holiday was the best time to quit and he agreed it probably wasn't, but he has done it anyway and now we've all suffered with his moods.
On Friday night DH and brother in law decide to go to the pub, fine, except they dont come home until 2am absolutely pissed as farts. I phoned DH at around 1am to check they were ok, its a long dark walk back, and got shouted at for my troubles. (berated down the phone until i was shaking, and couldnt answer as was in a house with 5 sleeping children and my elderly mother)
Saturday was a total right off both my sister and i were exhausted due to being woken by the 2 drunks through the night. DH, still hasn't apologised. Im raging.
We've been having problems to the point of needing counselling/splitting up anyway so i am worried i am being unreasonable with how cross i am with him now. So AIBU?