I actually probably am. So big family party coming up for a milestone birthday for my mum.
Siblings and I had agreed to get a joint birthday present as we weren't really sure what to get. Having heard nothing from anyone I texted on Friday to ask if they wanted me to get the joint present and if we were going to get anything else.
Today around 5 they all began replying and turns out they have all brought extra presents already and have picked up the joint present.
I don't know when they all decided to get extra presents and why they didn't tell me.
Party is on Saturday and I'm working all week but will have to find time to buy extra presents.
Tbh I shouldn't be surprised as they've done similar before (parents 50th wedding anniversary). I don't have a lot of extra money and had budgeted for the joint present but will now have to find extra money from somewhere.
My husband says not to bother with an extra present and to tell siblings I'm pissed off but what's the point?
AIBU to think they could have included me in the decision to buy extra individual presents?
Furious and feel like refusing to go to the party (although obviously I will because I don't want to ruin it for my mum). I just think if I hadn't got in touch with with them I wouldn't even know. Almost feels like a deliberate attempt at humiliating me in front of the wider family.