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To think if you can wait for a GP you shouldn't be in A&E

253 replies

Alfenstein · 04/08/2022 14:48

Was in A&E overnight last night and was confused and then a bit annoyed about a situation and wanted to see what others thought

I arrived at A&E for 18:00, was told it was very busy (when is it not) and the waits were 5+ hours. I was triaged and sat in the waiting room

At 02:00 a nurse came in and made an announcement. Saying that waits were still really long because they've got 15 ambulances waiting but there is a GP based at the hospital who will be in from 08:00, if people would prefer to go home and come back they would be seen by the GP.

And half of the waiting room got up and left!

AIBU to think that if you can wait until morning you don't need to be in A&E.

Surely the issue isn't that urgent or an emergency if you can bugger off home and come back in the morning!

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Pieceofpurplesky · 04/08/2022 20:37

You'd have hated me OP, when sat with my DC in a&e after he came off his bike. He looked fine. Just a bit pale.

I knew something was not right.

First doctor said it was bruising and was about to send him home - but a consultant happened to stop and commented on his colour. Insisted he went for a scan and he had internal bleeding, within minutes he was hooked up to machines and blood. You would have judged if I had gone home. If I had gone home he would be dead.

Have some compassion and don't be so arsey to people

balalake · 04/08/2022 20:45

Given the time it takes in some places to get a GP appointment, or even to get through to them, no wonder some people go to A+E who could be treated elsewhere. That is even before there are those who have let some condition or illness get to a point where it needs treatment there and then.

Alfenstein · 04/08/2022 21:20

Pieceofpurplesky · 04/08/2022 20:37

You'd have hated me OP, when sat with my DC in a&e after he came off his bike. He looked fine. Just a bit pale.

I knew something was not right.

First doctor said it was bruising and was about to send him home - but a consultant happened to stop and commented on his colour. Insisted he went for a scan and he had internal bleeding, within minutes he was hooked up to machines and blood. You would have judged if I had gone home. If I had gone home he would be dead.

Have some compassion and don't be so arsey to people

Why would I have hated you?

Unless you'd accept your child wasn't an emergency and therefore left once given the option to see a GP you're not the type of 'person' this post is about

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2MinuteRice · 04/08/2022 21:20

I'm completed bloody confused why you are telling people that that you have no interest in the medical service they receive but keep going on about your fucking own! HmmGrin

Alfenstein · 04/08/2022 21:23

Thornethorn · 04/08/2022 19:10

You cannot blame people for going to a and e when seeing the GP is often not an option. Rather than judging, just think of how many of those folks obviously preferred the GP option and would probably have taken it before going to a and e had it been made available by their practice.

I judge because the GP was the option

As is urgent care which is open 08:00-22:00

If their issues weren't severe enough to stay they should have waited at home until those services opened

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Alfenstein · 04/08/2022 21:25

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 04/08/2022 19:01

Locally you can't go to A&E without phoning first, so nobody can just turn up - and I've seen them turn people away and tell them to phone first.

I was there last year with chest pain. After about 4 hours, a nurse came out, and basically said the wait was 8 hours and anyone who wasn't at risk of losing a limb or dying might want to go home. A number of people left, including the young man sat next to me who had been Googling private health care options.

Everyone there would have been told they needed to be seen in A&E. Not saying there were no time wasters or people exaggerating, but they'd all have had a fairly extensive conversation about their symptoms before being advised on whether they needed out of hours GP, GP in the morning, minor injuries in the morning or A&E that evening.

That's what it was like here during COVID, had to be given a time to attend A&E after calling 111

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Alfenstein · 04/08/2022 21:27

itsjustnotok · 04/08/2022 18:16

OP you are making this very simplistic. No not everyone knows every service offered by their local hospital. Many come to ours clueless to the fact that we indeed have a GP. It’s not down to you to decide if someone can wait shouldn’t be there. I’ve met people who have tried to get appointments for weeks and keep being fobbed off - and we know that’s the case because it’s exactly the same surgeries and the same excuses given. People get desperate, they are in pain and they don’t know where to go. I totally get it and it’s sad. People like yourselves judging others isn’t helpful, you aren’t them and you don’t have to live their pain or lives and have no concept of their situation. Focus on yourself and getting well. The state of the system is the main issue not necessarily the people, yes some use it inappropriately but many have no choice.

You're correct I'm not them

And I'm damn well glad I'm not, would hate to be that ignorant tbh

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BackOnTheBandWagon · 04/08/2022 21:50

This is one of those threads that should just be ignored once it becomes apparent the OP is just spoiling for a fight. Sorry you're having such a tough time OP, but I think you need to find more constructive ways to deal with your feelings.

Alfenstein · 04/08/2022 22:03

BackOnTheBandWagon · 04/08/2022 21:50

This is one of those threads that should just be ignored once it becomes apparent the OP is just spoiling for a fight. Sorry you're having such a tough time OP, but I think you need to find more constructive ways to deal with your feelings.

Hardly spoiling for a fight

Merely pushing back on those posting irrelevant crap (although on AIBU 90% of posts come under this category so not surprised)

I've had many good replies which have been noted and added to my comms with the hospital

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alnawire · 04/08/2022 22:04

Goodness, this is still going Hmm

saddenedsosaddened · 04/08/2022 22:07

OP, I hope you receive the help you so obviously need. Until then, be strong. ❤

randomsabreuse · 04/08/2022 22:19

Our local MIU closes at 8. You could easily get there at 4 and not be seen... I was 3 or 4 hours with my 6 year old with a broken ankle. Got there around 2pm with non weight bearing child with 1 ankle twice the size of the other. Had other kid too because I'd thought when gym camp called me it was a rest and see how it is in the morning job, not a go to A&E job - she's stoic.

MIU is great because there's minimal triage beyond what 111 do - and most of the triage is at the desk making sure that it's just minor injuries rather than illness. Then it's just a queue so your well but sore child that clearly needs an x-ray (literally 1 minute exam before x-ray ordered) doesn't get bumped (perfectly reasonably) for people who are actually ill and likely to deteriorate.

With 3 year old we had to do A&E because of his age. Took much longer and the consultant obviously did all of the orthopedic cases in order once the stream of sick kids had largely stopped. 4 or 5 babies were triaged after my 3 year old with the obviously broken finger - and went through more or less instantly - all of those waiting ended up on the x-ray, cast/splint, referral to fracture pathway (we literally crossed paths in the corridors).

The weirdest one was when older child put Lego up her nose after bed time - in hours a GP would be able to extract, assuming the right kit but out of hours the only option was minors at children's A&E. They were very pleased we had not tried self help as that's a good way to get a date when an ENT surgeon... It felt ridiculous waiting in A&E with an embarassed but we'll child, but it was the right place to be - and waiting overnight would have been risking more intervention if it had shifted further in. Was dead easy for the Dr to remove with the right type of blunt ended tweezery things purely because DH took one look and went, nope, not without the right toys, which he didn't have... Suspect back in the day a GP would have come out to evict the offending item but that would be a poor use of resources nowadays.

I once used the OOH GP service to bypass A&E waiting - suspected appendicitis - GP prodded and sent me straight to the surgical ward at the central hospital, who were expecting me, which was way more convenient.

That said I'd avoid minor injuries for eye stuff, they're very limited with what they do - both times I've attended minor injuries with a scratched eye I've had to go to the main A&E in more pain later...

UxbridgeVoteBJOut · 04/08/2022 22:22

Thing is, all these 5 hour+ waits on hard chairs to get GP-level care: what is so wrong with GP surgeries that people think the 5 hour wait is tolerable, preferable to trying to see a GP or seek any other option. There has to be something super awful about seeing GP (or trying to see GP, or looking for any possibly faster option) that makes such long waits seem ok. That's what I want to know, what is it. Something is severely wrong somewhere.

VaccineSticker · 04/08/2022 22:23

Alfenstein · 04/08/2022 14:57

But why not turn up at 08:00 just for the GP instead of clogging up A&E in the first place is my confusion around this entire thing

It's hardly a secret the hospital has a GP that sees people from 08:00 every weekday

Ha ha because you can’t do this at our surgery. You need an appointment. Queueing first thing in the morning means nothing. You will be triaged first over the phone when they get round to ringing you back, then you get given a face to face appointment if they think it’s necessary.
You are welcome!

Zoeslatesttrope · 04/08/2022 22:25

Mumsnet has taught me about the existence of walk-in centres and Minor Injuries Units, and now I learn there is something called Urgent Care! We have none of these in my part of the UK 😪

Rewis · 04/08/2022 22:31

If 70 people show up to 8am gp appointment...how does that work exactly?

NeedToLeaveNow · 04/08/2022 22:33

You heard there ‘symptoms’ and you dont think they needed to be there…

Who are you to decide that….

I go to the hospital when i know ‘I dont feel well’
All my sats are fine and its literally ‘I feel ill’ but for me and my medical problems i have ‘feeling ill’ is very serious

A ‘cold’ has put me in hospital twice

IF you are still sitting in the waiting room for more than 8 hours, then you weren't seriously ill i presume??? @Alfenstein Alfenstein

VaccineSticker · 04/08/2022 22:38

let’s not turn this into GP bashing thread.

  1. there is shortage of GPs and medical professionals nationwide.
  2. People are not as healthy post covid compared to the precovid era. Long covid being one of the causes and cancelling routine checks and delaying opps on patients during lockdown. Both have generally made the nation unhealthier than before and needing more medical care.
let’s not vilify hospitals and GPs and have a look at the bigger picture. Anyway where are the dozens of new hospitals that we were promised?
DashboardConfessional · 04/08/2022 22:44

Our A&E triage and send people to the urgent treatment centre if appropriate. You can't take yourself there. You have to be referred from A&E.

Same here!
I had never even seen my local hospital until I gave birth. When my DS had infected eczema on a Sunday as a baby and it started turning purple I had no idea where to go! I called 111 and they sent me to minor injuries. When he had breathing issues before his asthma diagnosis they sent me to A&E who redirected us to Urgent Care, then we went back to A&E and onto a ward. The next time it was an ambulance. Honestly OP, most people do as they're told in these situations. They were probably directed there by 111. Then someone medical appears and tells them to come back tomorrow, so they do.

RichardMarxisinnocent · 04/08/2022 22:48

There were other areas where efficiency could be improved which I also included. For example there is only one check in desk, but overnight it's used to check out random people from the main hospital. And those people are priorities over new check ins, for example Johnny can be stood there bleeding from the skull and little old Mary being discharge from her 1 week stay in hospital will be pushed to the front and go through a 5 min check out process, including asking all the details of who is collecting her etc.

Where is this hospital which discharges patients in the middle of the night and where doing the discharge admin is part of the A&E receptionist's job? Is it a very small hospital?

RichardMarxisinnocent · 04/08/2022 22:51

Alfenstein · 04/08/2022 15:51

It probably should be, but triage is done by the check in desk.

The first desk just asks what's wrong and gives everyone the same instruction to go to the check in desk, if they were triaging people they weren't filtering anyone out

Wow these receptionists really are multi skilled. They book you into the ED, they handle discharge admin for inpatients, and they are also fully trained triage nurses.

eatingapie · 04/08/2022 23:02

I would love to be there when someone reads OP’s email of ‘suggestions’ to the hospital. Imagine that will be filed in the bin.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 04/08/2022 23:12

Jesus OP, if someone agrees with you will you let this go?

I mean you clearly want pontificate, so consider it job done. You’ve convinced everyone the error of their ways.

LakieLady · 04/08/2022 23:14

urrrgh46 · 04/08/2022 14:58

You're assuming people knew beforehand - I suspect most didn't!

I didn't know there was such a thing, so it wouldn't have occurred to me.

I had so much trouble getting through to the GP earlier this week that I contemplated driving down there and calling in to book the appointment, which would almost certainly have been a telephone appointment.

It struck me how weird that is - to think I might have to phsyically go there to make an appointment to have a phone call - the exact opposite of how things used to be.

LilacPoppy · 04/08/2022 23:15

Urgent care is just another name for a walk in centre.