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Would you find this annoying? (Neighbours)

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HillyJilly · 04/08/2022 03:23

I work nights from home, a pattern sort of 2 on 3 off 3 on two off so not always getting weekends off or set days of any sort.

Next door has been empty for a few weeks. New neighbour introduced herself to me a couple of days ago, youngish woman, very smiley and lovely-told me it was her and her husband and their little daughters. I was just getting in the door from a run, and was on the 'phone but I ended the call and said hello and welcome and to give me a shout if she needed anything, all very civil.

It's 2 am and I am hearing noises outside-It's a very quiet street, private road, nothing in the way of car traffic as It's narrow and awkward and very little foot traffic, so this is strange. I ignore for a bit but eventually hear louder voices, my dog reacts, I look outside and 3 young men are outside next door, a car parked that they're leaning against, laughing and talking loudly.

I don't think they saw me.

It's now 10 past 3 and they're still there and a minute ago were making repeated, loud 'fart' noises (I don't know how), laughing and giggling)...

Okay I work nights. I don't have any children. They've not woken me up and probably wouldn't even if I were asleep on a night off as my bedroom is the other side of the house.

They're not technically doing anything wrong.

But-opposite me are two very quiet elderly couples. Next to me is a woman of similar age to me who works fulltime and her bedroom is on that side of the street-I am very mindful to be quiet when I am working nights as to not wake her up. They were being loud enough for me to hear them in my sitting room which is at the opposite end of my house, and fart noises at 3 am, really?

As an aside I couldn't park outside my house today and had to park at the bottom of a different street. They have a (small) drive, whereas I have a front yard instead. They're old terraces and close together.

Their car was sticking out at such an angle that I'd have had to have been very careful as to slot it in between my other neighbour's car and their sticking-out bonnet, it was probably possible, but not without a 30 point maneuver that would have been very awkward to do. I think I will say something to them about that. It's annoying and I find it inconsiderate -the fella who lived there before always parked in such a way that it wasn't a problem, I think he pointed his bonnet facing the other way and reversed far enough back, and nobody parks next to their drive in the other direction.

Am I being a pearl clutcher unreasonable to hope the chatting at this hour doesn't continue, for the sake of my neighbours if not me?

I think I'll say something to one of them about the parking problem-previous MN threads have taught me about nightmare neighbours though so I wish I didn't have to!

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HillyJilly · 04/08/2022 07:31

24/7 line even!

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ZekeZeke · 04/08/2022 07:47

Each time they make it difficult for you to park just knock in and ask them to move up a little as you cannot park.

Re the night chatting. Once off, just leave it. If it continued I would say something.

MrsOwainGlyndŵr · 04/08/2022 08:09

It's a one off so far so I think you'd be unreasonable to complain.

And re the car parking, just go and have a chat with them FFS! Introduce yourself properly as it sounds like it was all a bit rushed when she came to you. No need to make a big thing of it. They probably haven't realised. Although you have no right to park outside your own house and people who live in that sort of street have to take their chances.

HillyJilly · 04/08/2022 09:49

ZekeZeke · 04/08/2022 07:47

Each time they make it difficult for you to park just knock in and ask them to move up a little as you cannot park.

Re the night chatting. Once off, just leave it. If it continued I would say something.

Yes, I will. hopefully won't be more than once. I've managed to park now as they've gone out :)

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HillyJilly · 04/08/2022 14:41

MrsOwainGlyndŵr · 04/08/2022 08:09

It's a one off so far so I think you'd be unreasonable to complain.

And re the car parking, just go and have a chat with them FFS! Introduce yourself properly as it sounds like it was all a bit rushed when she came to you. No need to make a big thing of it. They probably haven't realised. Although you have no right to park outside your own house and people who live in that sort of street have to take their chances.

It was rushed, yes. I've parked outside my house now (as said upthread I do have a right to park there) so hopefully they'll not be able to park in a way that blocks my access.
I'll see if the late night shenanigans continue, I won't say anything yet.

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10HailMarys · 04/08/2022 15:38

Geordielass1987 · 04/08/2022 07:18

We have this a lot with our European neighbours.

British people are 'European'. We've left the EU. We are still part of the continent of Europe.

Not that the background of your neighbours is remotely relevant to them being noisy anyway.

HillyJilly · 05/08/2022 00:32

10HailMarys · 04/08/2022 15:38

British people are 'European'. We've left the EU. We are still part of the continent of Europe.

Not that the background of your neighbours is remotely relevant to them being noisy anyway.

Yes, I didn't know how to approach this comment if I'm honest.

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Cometcamellia · 01/02/2023 13:32

Cross fingers the noise in the street was a one off. A super friendly chat asap about how the car is parked including proper explanation of how the previous chap managed it will help you be neighbours. I would think that the night noise is unusual.

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