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In a career rut post baby

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Whattodoaboutworknow · 02/08/2022 20:55

Looking for a bit of inspiration for those who have returned to their careers after having a baby.
I am really stuck with what to do with my career since having my baby - now 22months. I’ve been in the same role for 5 years, it’s really comfortable, super flexible, quite good pay, completely suits life with a young child, no work anxiety at all. Some days we are crazy busy and others quiet so I get away with doing housework as long as the work gets done. Sorry I know people of mumsnet hate admitting that about WFH but I do 😂
It’s full time but I reckon I could negotiate part time if I had to and I have considered it. BUT it now feels stale, I feel I can do so much more and there isn’t any room for progression on the team. My confidence has taken a bit of a nose dive and I am feeling so uninspired.

An opportunity has come up for me to apply for a more senior position where I’ll have more professional input using the knowledge I’ve gained working at the company. I sometimes struggle to believe I. myself when it comes to trying new things but when I get thrown in at the deep end, I thrive and really go for it so I’m not worried I won’t cope if I do get the job. On paper I tick all the boxes for this role.
I suppose my main concern is what if the work life balance becomes more difficult when I have it so easy now.

I just don’t know whether to stay in my cushty, easy, safe role or go for it and think of myself and my career long term.

YABU - get the fire back in your belly and go for the role!!

YANBU - take the easy, safe option while your child is young.

OP posts:
ChiefWiggumsBoy · 02/08/2022 20:58

I say go for it. I was similar - went back to work after babies and just needed a change. Wouldn’t look back.

The beauty of more senior roles is that assuming you’re not in an operational management role, you can basically manage your own diary.

CloudPop · 02/08/2022 22:05

Are you planning to have another baby? If so I'd do deep breaths and stick with what you've got as it sounds like a good deal. If not planning any more children then totally crack on with the promotion.

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