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Dropped like I am nothing

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Howdoesyourgardengrow1 · 02/08/2022 00:03

I was seeing a guy for a few months. All was well. I was happy and he seemed to be too. we got on very well and I really enjoyed his company.

In the last few weeks I did notice he seemed a bit distant but I presumed he was just busy with work and had other things on. He then came round to mine and everything seemed fine again and we had a good time and there was no indication that anything was wrong. We had another date planned and I bought a nice outfit and I even bought him a birthday present for this month.

Now all of a sudden he has ghosted me. He has been ignoring my texts and hasn’t been in contact. I haven’t seen him for nearly 3 weeks now and it just really hurts. I even told him he could say if his feelings had changed and that I’d rather know what’s going on but he ignored me. I feel really hurt. I know there’s nothing I can do but some kind words would be appreciated!

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Bearyhumcrack · 02/08/2022 00:08

That's shit OP. Happened to me & I found out about his "new" relationship in the daily Mail. Explained a few things.

it's so hard but delete and block him on everything. Now. Don't do what I did and keep letting him back into your life.

limitededitionbarbie · 02/08/2022 00:33

Block him. Fuck him off. Really the best thing you can do is think positively in that he's shown his true colours now. Not something you want long term.

For whatever reason he has, he's chosen the cowards way out.

limitededitionbarbie · 02/08/2022 00:35

@Bearyhumcrack you've had a lucky escape! He wil prob be in the paper for his next trick

Howdoesyourgardengrow1 · 02/08/2022 08:22

Thank you everyone. I feel so hurt but glad I found out what he is like now! He has no regard for my feelings

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neverbeenskiing · 02/08/2022 08:27

Ghosting is such a cruel and cowardly way to end a relationship. It's 100% his loss, OP. I agree with PP, block him now so you're not tempted to give him another chance if he gets back in touch down the line.

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