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AIBU?

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To think his behaviour is unfair?

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AreWeNearlyThereYet84 · 31/07/2022 20:16

I have had a friend who I have been very close to for a number of years now.

Just after I had Covid, I became very depressed (there's a history of depression) and for the past few weeks I have been at rock bottom, crying most days and sometimes even wondering what the point of living is.

I admitted to this friend that I wasn't feeling my best and since then the contact we have has dramatically reduced on his part (we usually text throughout the day and now barely anything) and never any texts of asking how i'm doing or any offers to meet up. I am really drowning in this depression and the lack of his support his making me feel worse. I don't usually rely on people because I'm aware i'm responsible for myself, but I feel let down. AIBU to feel this way?

OP posts:
Rowen32 · 31/07/2022 21:32

I think a lot of people can't handle crises of any kind. I lost a lot of friends when I was unwell. I genuinely think people are scared and don't know what to say/do.. Try to be kind to yourself and reach out to someone else that you feel might be a better support. Lots of luck xx

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