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AIBU?

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Screaming child in tent next door

412 replies

Sittininafield · 29/07/2022 05:07

AIBU to think the parents are selfish knob heads. Fourth night in a row. Toddler screams from 10.30 till 11.30 ish every night and then periodically every couple of hours. Not sad baby crying but toddler tantrum screaming and shouting. I am beginning to think it is the spawn of satan. Why would you go camping if your child doesn’t sleep, and why wouldn’t you go home out of consideration for others after a couple of nights? They are quite now but I’m awake since the last screams at 3.30. Should I go and shake their tent in sleep deprived, demented re-wenge?

OP posts:
Panatone · 08/08/2022 10:51

@Maddie1974 Only on mumsnet! Uncontrollable kids and hapless parenting keeping everybody awake, and the OP should go and offer to do their shopping!
There is literally nobody in real life who would do this,
Seriously living in a parallel universe to the rest of us😂

Arbesque · 08/08/2022 11:34

Nahimjustaworm · 01/08/2022 08:20

Nobody is saying OP should be happy with the situation. Some are saying it's unreasonable to expect the other family to cut their holiday short though. They're not intentionally being a nuisence. They're not partying/drinking til 3am. Their baby is upset and they're probably trying their best to placate them. There's a massive difference

No they're not intentionally being a nuisance, but they are knowingly disrupting everyone around them and should have the sense after several nights to realise 'this isn't going to stop and we must be driving everyone mad' and just go home.

Nahimjustaworm · 09/08/2022 14:16

Panatone · 08/08/2022 10:51

@Maddie1974 Only on mumsnet! Uncontrollable kids and hapless parenting keeping everybody awake, and the OP should go and offer to do their shopping!
There is literally nobody in real life who would do this,
Seriously living in a parallel universe to the rest of us😂

There's no wonder parents are so constantly on the edge when people are so quick to judge. It's vile. The kid is crying because they're somewhere strange not snorting coke FFS. It's fR from hapless parenting. Anyone this hasn't happened too probably has a bit of a hapless child to be perfectly honest...

Insanelysilver · 22/08/2022 05:33

God I hate camping! Every holiday we ever went on when I was a kid was in a tent. Trudging up to the Communal toilet blocks at night where crane flies the size of magpies lurch towards you when you’re helpless on the loo. Putting up the tent, Squelchy ground sheets when it rains, buffeting canvas in the wind , sleeping bags, blow up beds either deflating or like a rock, everyone In each other’s personal space; I bet Hell does a camping
Section lol 😂

lissy123 · 30/05/2023 02:39

It’s 2.29am and I’m wide awake in a tent with my toddler 2, that’s just definitely woke the next tent up & possibly others 😩 but now I can’t go back to sleep because next door is snoring so loud???

this post I get it from your side but everyone’s in a tent hardly sound proof to any sort of noise BUT also things should be taken into consideration especially if your a parent yourself?

my son is disabled he has to feed more than a child his age to stay alive over night so wakes up numerous times of the night, we can’t take him aboard so this is his 1st holiday as a family which was exciting for us and his sister. I may feel uncomfortable seeing our neighbours in the morning but I certainly won’t be leaving, I’ll apologise of course but if they want to move on pitches then please do 😭😭😭

JandalsAlways · 30/05/2023 02:54

Gawd. Just another reason why I wouldn't go camping!! YANBU, although there is a chance it's not normal for the toddler to be like that. More than two nights is unacceptable, as it's unlikely to settle if it hasn't already.

Phoebo · 30/05/2023 03:19

SizzlingAwayIntheHotSun · 29/07/2022 07:28

We camp, sometimes in this country, sometimes abroad. We've taken a 1 month old and a 1.5 year old abroad in the past. They did wake up in the night and cried, that's what babies and small children do. We were abroad on that holiday and had paid for 2 weeks and couldn't get a different ferry so just going home wasn't an option. We were used to it besides so we weren't going to go home for the same thing at home. We had a Dutch family next to us who were surprisingly the most rude people we have ever met camping (the Dutch are incredibly friendly normally) we assumed they were pissed off about our children, but there isnt much we could do they were so little.

I think if you want silence camping isn't for you. I remember camping when we were just a couple and a family in the next tent were up for the day before 6am, they had 3 or 4 children so it was impossible for them to do quiet so everyday we were awake too. We were camping though and children/babies aren't the same as putting on loud music, unfortunately especially babies don't have a mute button! Book a hotel next time.

You sound absolutely horrible and selfish. Didn't want to go home as you had paid for it, but who cares about everyone else who also had paid for a holiday. You should be the one booking a hotel!

HirplesWithHaggis · 30/05/2023 03:58

This thread is from July last year.

pompomdaisy · 30/05/2023 06:44

Some children have undiagnosed special needs. My neighbours child used to scream at bedtime. Now older she's been diagnosed. Just move. Even people having a tough time with children deserve a holiday!

VestaTilley · 30/05/2023 06:49

@FortunaMajor can you take his registration number of his car? If he’s verbally abusing his 4 year old- poor little mite - that should be flagged. Police might be able to find out who car is registered to and pass message on to social services.

Yes, I know they’re all inundated etc, but someone should speak up for that poor child.

thatsn0tmyname · 30/05/2023 06:56

I've never seen the appeal of camping.

Tots678 · 30/05/2023 07:14

Twiglets1 · 29/07/2022 06:28

Why would anyone go camping in the first place is the question that puzzles me

Yes! Unless you are on some remote hillside (in the UK where there aren't bears etc)

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