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Being upset about a (lack of photo)

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MarthaMC · 28/07/2022 20:45

I started rowing (on water) a couple months ago about the same time I fell pregnant, my first, and have managed to pick up the single skull pretty well so feeling proud of myself as it's really hard. This was my last week I could attend so asked my partner to come and take pics and a video to have the memory of rowing with baby on board. I discovered afterwards he didn't take one single picture, didn't even attempt it and delete it cos he said my face wasn't clear so it could have been anyone. I got really upset and cried but he thinks I'm being ridiculous. He's very athletic and I'm not sporty at all I just wanted a little memento of my achievement especially doing it while feeling sick and tired. I know there's hormones at play here but I'm honestly still so upset I can't even speak to him, am I being totally stupid?

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MarthaMC · 29/07/2022 10:50

No he never attempted any at all, I asked if he tried some and deleted them he said no. It did occur to me afterwards that he probably forgot and lied to cover it up which is somehow worse than just apologising for the mistake. I was no more that 20m away from shore and the only person out there for last half hour so no mixing me up. It has become a bit of a joke that he doesn't listen but you know- do better! Thanks all for the replies, I don't feel quite so irrational now and might attempt another short session with a friend if I can find an hour I don't want to hurl...

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