To thinks hes picking a fight on purpose new

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This is a new thread as I cant get on my other one..no idea why
But just an update: so he didnt contact AT ALL yesterday which is shockingly disgraceful seeing as he has three kids. I also refused to engage with him but today I got a text from him saying he had passed one of the main assessments (alas suspicion I had in the first place about perhaps he was stressed with revising)
Posters on here have been very helpful and I am mulling over things. I havent responded yet as I am still fuming.
Also his text was very generic probably sent it to numerous contacts, no x's or anything or asked about the kids!!
So I am thinking whether I should wait for him to come home tomorrow to discuss all this or if he rings this eve?

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I think you need to provide a lot more information if you want responses, OP. I have no idea what you are talking about.

@MadMadMadamMim

Sorry I had another post up from Tuesday about dh picking a fight with me for no reason basically and being distant/picking fights in the past 2 weeks.
Wondering why he would do this.
The other thread had loads of posters giving advice so I have made a new onr as I cant seem to get on it. Has disappeared

I think the MN msg said you had privacy concerns and your thread was taken down OP.

Yes, you asked for the thread to be taken down due to privacy concerns, according to the notice on it

Can someone link me to the thread please? Cant seem to get on it like ut doesnt exist

If it's been taken down it essentially doesnt exist anymore, did you ask MNHQ to take.it down?

OP, you still have lots of other threads about your husband and his police firearms training course and how you think he might have an affair, and that you aren't sure whether he should be coming home more often and texting more etc etc. You've been posting about it since early May.

I don't think constantly asking strangers about it on Mumsnet is actually helping you. Every time you get mixed responses and it doesn't seem to alleviate your concerns in any way.

If Mumsnet took down your other thread without you requesting that, it was probably because you'd revealed too much detail and they had privacy concerns for either you or your husband.

Op you keep asking the same thing on all your threads. You clearly do not trust him.
He has refused to come home at the weekends, shouts at you when he rings you, calls you disgusting names.
It may be a stressful course but he is treating you like dirt.
I would tell him not to bother coming home and have a great weekend with your dc

As mentioned before, it is one thing being stressed.

It is another taking it out on their loved one and calling them awful names.

And a whole other level entirely ignoring his kids out of spite/disregard/whatever.

You know it is wrong OP. We are telling you his behaviour honks to all hell here.

We can’t know what is happening - you might be able to figure it out eventually.

Only you can make steps to fix it. But from what you’ve said so far, it isn’t right. Kind, loving partners don’t punish their family just because they can.