To just want a sterilisation ( will be triggering)

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It’s been a long time posting, and really need to vent.

3 coils have been expelled due to extremely heavy periods. Hormone induced contraception leads me suicidal ( I have tried once and happily I live on)

ex husband had the snip, I have a latex allergy and even thought I am happily to supply Latex free condoms most men I meet for casual sex don’t trust my condoms. I don’t want a serious relationship.

if I was to get pregnant I would abort due to the medication I’m on. I have already bought up a child with added needs and have just enough energy to continue to support him. Plus I have a 14 year old about to start gcse

why is it so difficult for myself to get an operation to prevent myself from getting abortion after abortion

Think it depends on your age.

I'm 41 with 3 kids (21, 10 and 2). I do not want any more. I'm not in a relationship but if I get into something I don't want to worry about getting pregnant.
I got pregnant on contraception with my last daughter so I'm not risking that again

Anywho I asked the gp to put me forward for sterilisation and she kept trying to discourage me and told me to try contraception again. I said no. I want to be sterilised. She then said it will probably get rejected and seemed really hesitant to do it. I'm still waiting 😤

Sterilisation or terminations won't protect you from syphilis, herpes, gonorrhoea, Hepatitis or HIV. Or from the risks involved with meeting randoms who like barebacking equally random women.

OP, having sex with a bunch of guys who won't do responsible things like use condoms doesn't sounds super safe or responsible--I mean, not safe generally, even apart from the STI issue.

I hope you get some help on the sterilization issue anyway, but you need to use condoms. You could contract something vile (and even pass it on to the next person you hook up with).

I've been trying to Google the pros and cons of sterilisation as for me it's the only thing I can see making me happy in the future. I've tried every sensible Contraception, I have frequent migraines so most dont agree with me. I had to stop the pill a few years ago for an operation and it was the happiest and best my body had felt since I was a teen! Hubby is too scared to go for the snip and with 2 teens in the house I seriously dont want anymore kids. So I am about to start warning my doctor that when my coil comes out next year (I think) I want to be sterilised so they have plenty time to get it in there heads that I will have nothing else.

I should add hubby won't go for the snip but doesnt think I should get sterilised in case I try to turn it round on him sometime 🙄 he's the one dead set from when we met (12 years ago) that there was going to be no kids

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