Myself, DS and DH are very close with my mother & sisters. We live close by and my DH and sister work together and travel to work and back together, so spend a lot of time with each other. My sister doesn’t have children/partner and lives at home with my mother.
There has previously been an issue where DH would share details with my sister of private arguments we’ve had and my sister would sometimes use it against me after. I told DH a while ago that it needs to stop and as far as I knew/know, it had stopped.
Myself and DH had a very heated disagreement over housework, dinner etc via text today. My sister came over this evening and could sense there was an atmosphere, so she went into another room and asked DH what the problem was, in which he passed her his phone and showed her all of our messages.
At first, I was very, very angry but now very hurt, especially to do so in such a short distance of me in my own home. DH doesn’t see the issue at all and is making out like I’m overreacting. I admit I probably could have handled our disagreement better in regards to the housework and dinner to begin with.
So, AIBU? Would appreciate honest thoughts :)