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to be bored of working from home

9 replies

LouLouie · 25/07/2022 16:57

Firstly, I am so grateful for the opportunity to take my son to school.
But oh my god I am bored. A lot of it is due to my role, even when I was in the office, I am not part of a team. I am the only member of this specific department.
Haven't liked my role in a long time but pre pandemic I sat with some guys and we had some fun banter that made up for my job being rubbish.
Now that I am working from home, I am just so incredibly bored and demotivated. I am just on my own all day. There are no good bits (unless you count being able to do housework during lunch hour as a good bit). For me, I see it as life passing me by.
I do go into the office once a week and that is ok. But as you gather from this post, I am unhappy in my role anyway.
My other half has no sympathy for me. I think he sees me as being ungrateful.
Am I being unreasonable? Should I be grateful? Anyone else feel like this?
I am applying for new jobs, but I am worried that my confidence has been knocked from spending so much time in isolation.
It doesn't help that I conduct exit interviews at work. I see so many people leaving (staff retention is bad at present) and they are going to some amazing places. But they have a different skill set to me.
I am definitely in a rut and just reaching out to see if anyone else in the same lonely boat?
When I do go into the office once a week, I really appreciate talking to people, even on my commute. All this is lost when working from home. Surely we are social beings?

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JanisMoplin · 25/07/2022 17:04

I feel exactly the same way. DH, on the other hand, loves WFH. I can't change jobs at the moment, so I volunteer once a week to see some people. You are not being ungrateful. Zoom calls sap the spirit!

Turnthatoff · 25/07/2022 17:06

I think that long term, working from home is not great for the majority of people. Sure, it sounds great on paper, but it can be very isolating.

JanisMoplin · 25/07/2022 17:08

I think it is also causing people to develop social anxiety and become recluses, especially those young people who began working in the pandemic and have never known what it is to work in an office. So many of my friends are now very proud about only leaving the house once in ten days.

LouLouie · 25/07/2022 19:07

I think staying at home makes you feel safe in a comfort zone. But that's not living. I really feel this way.
I just hope I can get a new job with a bit more mix. Volunteering also sounds like a good shout.

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SparkyBlue · 25/07/2022 19:17

DH is now working from home on a full time basis and he absolutely hates it. He had to go into the office two weeks ago and it was like he was on a day out.

LouLouie · 25/07/2022 19:20

Yes!! Going to the office is like a day out! Madness

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AllThatFancyPaintsAsFair · 25/07/2022 19:24

Of course you aren't unreasonable,it's not like everyone is supposed to love working from home. It's odd to me that that attitude has become the norm

Ive always done some work from home but have zero desire to increase that and choose to go into my job during covid
That's perfectly normal

balalake · 25/07/2022 19:26

Different impacts for different people I think. Wfh all bar one day a week works for me, but I always say that, recognising it is not good for some. I host an operations call each morning, so am speaking with a number of people early on in the day, most of whom pre 2020 were and are at different locations anyway. So for me a key part of the working day has not changed and brings structure.

VladmirsPoutine · 25/07/2022 19:29

WFH is one of the best things that has ever happened in my life and I'm not even being slightly dramatic. Now it's more flexi than full time WFH but I suppose it suits different people differently. Having said that it sounds it's more the role itself than the total isolation?

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