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Bullying at work - help!

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300b · 23/07/2022 21:33

I’m really needing a bit of a hand hold here tbh. Not sure this is the place for it, but I need some advice and clarity.

I think I’m being bullied at work. I was off sick and came back but still nothing has been done. As time goes on I feel less emotional about it all and wonder if I’ve made a fuss over nothing. It’s being suggested that the issue is with me by manager.

Im worried I’ve overreacted and now this is all being turned onto me. What I know for sure is that I was worried sick, mentally unwell with panic and suicidal thoughts. So something must have been happening to make me feel that way. Or what if I have misinterpreted?

It is all finally being investigated but only because I’ve handed in my notice and mentioned the lack of support in exit interview.

Has anyone else had a similar experience? I’m panicky all the time and can’t enjoy time with my family.

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300b · 23/07/2022 22:07

Shameless bump 😬

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TheRealKatnissEverdeen · 23/07/2022 22:19

Sorry to hear this. It sounds stressful and worrying.
Can you say more about the events leading you to take time off work?
Have you left the company now?
Will you do appeal if the investigation isn't satisfactory?

I can't say I have been bullied but I definitely have had experienced major stress as a result of working with two quite difficult people at a time I was trying to purchase a house (so really needed a job particularly as I'm a contractor so can be released with a weeks notice!).

MichelleScarn · 23/07/2022 22:24

Have their been incidents which you feel you can pin point that were bullying?

Jalisco · 23/07/2022 22:25

You are being bullied?

How, exactly?

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