Our neighbour is a 74 year old-ish unmarried woman with no family who often looks after our cat when we go away. I'm furious with my partner who asked her what was going to happen to her house after the dies. It seems tactless to me and worst of all I'm worried now that she'll think that we are after it. She can be quite cutting and judgemental about all the other neighbours.
Am I being unreasonable to be angry at how tactless and idiotic my partner is?
It seems a impolite thing to ask, as it really is none of our business.
What are your thoughts?