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To think it's madness that my GP can't put me forward for a hysterectomy?

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AreWeNearlyThereYet84 · 21/07/2022 13:43

I suffer with prolonged bleeding sometimes for a month at a time. It's extremely heavy and with blood clots, caused by Endometriosis. I can soak a thick incontinence pad within ten minutes. It's badly affecting my quality of life and makes me question what is the point of being here regularly. I have flooded onto chairs at work, which is humiliating and the pain is unbearable.

My usual medication hasn't been stopping the bleeding lately, only making it worse.

When I last spoke to my GP around three months ago he referred me for an endometrial ablation.I haven't heard anything from the hospital regarding an appointment, so chased this and they said they would send a letter when they're ready to see me.

So yesterday, in desperation for a normal life where i'm not shattered and flooding constantly, I saw my GP again. I explained that I now would like to be considered for a hysterectomy, but he said that he cannot refer me for one and that I will need to speak to the gynae consultant when the hospital finally get in touch. I am totally at the end of my tether. I will wait for the letter inviting me in to arrive of course, but is this right that my GP can't refer me for a hysterectomy? Is it right that I will just rock up at my appointment which was for an ablation, to then discuss the possibility of an hysterectomy? My GP said the consultant would need to be persuaded that an hysterectomy would be best for me too. It doesn't give me much hope at all. I'm so fed up!

OP posts:
ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/07/2022 07:44

entropynow · 25/07/2022 05:20

They are NOT given them easily, this and another post are the usual overhyped transphobic asshattery that apparently goes unchallenged by the powers that be around here.
How about sticking to the point of OP's question?

www.bbc.com/news/health-51806962

www.bbc.com/news/health-51676020

Josephsrose · 25/07/2022 08:39

OP regarding Benenden. It doesn't treat everything, it doesn't advertise giving hysterectomies either, but I got one in a private hospital. The thing is, someone looked at my scans, gave me an MRI and had surgery a few days afterwards. I was in TROUBLE and had visited a&e and been turned away repeatedly as not ill enough. I remember teaching a lesson and a tsunami blood gush running to my knees.

You also get GP phone consultations, and free counselling.

jammywagonwheel · 25/07/2022 08:41

I feel your pain.. a hysterectomy was the best thing I ever did... Are you on Tranexamic acid? (Spelling is wrong).. it really helped slow the bleeding. All you can do is call the hospital and explain and hope they can pop you on the list for an appointment. Hang in there it will get better.. sending virtual hugs and hot water bottles....

Spidey66 · 25/07/2022 08:59

As someone who's had a hysterectomy, while I don’t regret it, it is major surgery with a long recovery. My mum had a ablation for similar reasons to you (but not endo) and it improved her life 1000%. Don’t dismiss it. See what gynaecology say.

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