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To resent womens football

62 replies

Attictroll · 16/07/2022 20:36

And yes I know I am...only woman in my household and we usually have a family film etc Saturday night with food in front of telly. Oh no tonight it's football...I hate watching sport and this is just as boring as mens football and I'm sat here hating it - they all just wanted to watch the football. I could leave the room and be on my own but I wfh on my own all week!

Womens football is great I am sure but for me it's just more bloody football watched by the same people who watch mens...maybe we can cancel some mens football to even it up.

OP posts:
araiwa · 17/07/2022 07:08

Ontomatopea · 17/07/2022 06:48

When men's football is on will OP come back with a similar posr moaning about men's football I wonder..

Yes. They're are always loads of threads complaining about men's football too.

SpartacusNotEsther · 17/07/2022 07:14

How often have you been subjected to women's football, in order for you to resent it specifically?

I see you now say all sport, but honestly I think yabu to pick on women's football - it's been a long fight to get it on to tv screens, and the time is on is a small percentage of the time that mens football is on.

Magnolia24 · 17/07/2022 07:16

I felt like the op seven years ago, until my 7 year old started playing. I wanted her to do a team sport where she could be out in the fresh air, improving her physical health, and making friends. Since then we’ve/she’s not looked back, and it turns out she’s a pretty good goalie. As a single mum to two girls I’ve never wanted a toy or sport or anything to be ‘out of bounds’ because of their gender. I want them to grow up to be strong, happy, independent women, and I think the lionesses are brilliant role models. I much prefer women’s football to men’s. We’re watching every game and loving it, much preferring it to any movie, and I never thought I’d say that a few years ago.

GretaVanFleet · 17/07/2022 07:42

You do realise there’s the World Cup later this year…just warning you now ⚽️

BrookeDavisQueen · 17/07/2022 07:50

User2145738790 · 17/07/2022 01:08

Well done op, you must be one of the 100 people that actually watch it.

Keep up. Attendance and viewing figures going through the roof. England games all sold out within weeks.

This England plays fast attacking football. There are quality players like Kirby and Mead and goal scorers like Russo and White but more importantly they fit into a system and style that creates a perfectly formed team with quality in abundance on the bench.

It's far more enjoyable to watch than the defend and nick style of the men.

thechiefstew · 17/07/2022 07:56

Its absolutely fantastic that womens football is getting so much coverage and having the profile raised. Not just for football but for girls/women everywhere. It’s a shame you and your DH don’t like watching the same things on tv, but see this tournament for the milestone it is.

BigSandyBalls2015 · 17/07/2022 09:06

I love it. Both my girls played in a local team for years and I’m thrilled that women’s football is getting so much more coverage in the media.

Come on England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

dottiedodah · 17/07/2022 09:22

Great that womens football is doing so well.Not great for me as not a football fan!

andyindurham · 17/07/2022 09:31

On the 'sport vs family film' point, surely the big thing about (televised) sport is that it is one of very few things where there's a genuine benefit in watching it live. The result is unknown, there's no script, and unlike a film (or sitcom, documentary, opera, etc) it's not the same if you watch it later. There's a shared experience in watching events unfold that doesn't apply to most things on screen. That's why I'd argue a live sporting event can take priority over a family film (that would be the same if you watched it tomorrow). You could, I suppose, make a similar case for (some) reality TV, Eurovision, the lottery draw etc - anything where the outcome is not predetermined.

That said, while I would make that case for England's games (since I support England), I wouldn't bother for Spain vs Denmark last night (not Spanish, not Danish, not all that fussed about the outcome even if it decides who plays England next).

Random question: I know, if I wish, that I can watch the whole game after the event and, if I organise myself, do so without knowing the score. Therefore the action unfolds, for me, in the same real-time unpredictability I mentioned above. So why does that never feel the seem (used to do this sometimes when living overseas and my team's game was at an inconvenient local time, rarely got to half time without looking up the final score and spinning on to the highlights).

Oblomov22 · 17/07/2022 09:39

I can't get into womens football. I keep trying but I just find it boring. I really like mens football.

dontbringthatbirdinhere · 17/07/2022 12:32

YABVU! I hate watching sport, despise it, but I massively support the televising of women's football for equality reasons.

You have a DH/family problem, not a women's football problem.

Kite22 · 17/07/2022 17:50

andyindurham · 17/07/2022 09:31

On the 'sport vs family film' point, surely the big thing about (televised) sport is that it is one of very few things where there's a genuine benefit in watching it live. The result is unknown, there's no script, and unlike a film (or sitcom, documentary, opera, etc) it's not the same if you watch it later. There's a shared experience in watching events unfold that doesn't apply to most things on screen. That's why I'd argue a live sporting event can take priority over a family film (that would be the same if you watched it tomorrow). You could, I suppose, make a similar case for (some) reality TV, Eurovision, the lottery draw etc - anything where the outcome is not predetermined.

That said, while I would make that case for England's games (since I support England), I wouldn't bother for Spain vs Denmark last night (not Spanish, not Danish, not all that fussed about the outcome even if it decides who plays England next).

Random question: I know, if I wish, that I can watch the whole game after the event and, if I organise myself, do so without knowing the score. Therefore the action unfolds, for me, in the same real-time unpredictability I mentioned above. So why does that never feel the seem (used to do this sometimes when living overseas and my team's game was at an inconvenient local time, rarely got to half time without looking up the final score and spinning on to the highlights).

Exactly.

This is surely about whether it seems reasonable for someone watching something live and unscripted to have priority over the main TV in the house, over someone wanting to watch something on DVD / Netflix DisneyPlus / Amazon / or just any catch up service that you can watch at any time of any day.

To me, it seems pretty reasonable. Even when others want to watch things that I don't.

Why are you picking on women’s football? What an annoying and nonsensical post.

Agree - this is about how you discuss / negotiate things in your family when you want to do things differently, and nothing to do with Women's football.

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