There’s a group of parents who have children in my daughter’s year who regularly meet up. I’m kind of on the fringe of the group but intermittently get asked to join in on activities with her and our family. Today was one of those days and we had a really lovely time… until the penny dropped that we were the only ones not then going onto one of the family’s houses for more fun and games for the evening. I’m aware there’s an alternative chat for these mums and I guess this is where it was organised. I don’t know why we weren’t included and I’m sure they have their reasons not to ask us (I get on with them all fine when we do actually do stuff) but when my daughter knows she’s missing out on fun with her friends and the only reason I can think of is that they just don’t like me/us it’s hard. I really want to say that I don’t care but I guess I do. AIBU?