I've been away with my group of friends a few times in the last year for weekends etc, every single time weight/ looks/ image gets brought up multiple times, mostly in the context of how someone has gained 5lbs so now they're huge and disgusting or they've got a few grey hairs so they now must be incredibly unattractive to men etc etc. There are a couple of members of the friendship group who are a bit heavier than the rest and I always notice they just sit so awkwardly and don't join in with the "oh I'm so fat" talk and I genuinely wonder how the rest of my friends don't pick up on it and realise its making them uncomfortable. I used to be a lot bigger than I am now so I guess maybe I see both sides easier but it's so infuriating to me, especially because the ones that do talk like that about themselves are the thinnest and prettiest (and they know it)