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Help me understand gender reveal party’s?!?!

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murakamilove · 13/07/2022 20:47

Not sure AIBU - can anyone shed any light on them please?
Who organises?
How do they know the gender?
Why/how don’t they parents know the gender?

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murakamilove · 14/07/2022 07:41

Thank you - that makes perfect sense 🙏🏽

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Ontomatopea · 14/07/2022 07:43

murakamilove · 14/07/2022 07:40

Hi - I’m honestly not, I’m just confused as to the ones I’ve seen where the parents don’t seem to know & I haven’t been able to work out how.
And I thought they were called Gender reveal?

Yeah they are. Some people don't belive in gender though.

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murakamilove · 14/07/2022 07:44

🙏🏽

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Greenginghamdress · 14/07/2022 07:46

I don't get it at all but then again I'm quite an advocate for not finding out gender.
I am glad I didn't find out as it was the best surprise in the world.
I do think gender reveal parties are just an excuse to post a video on social media.
In terms of the parents not knowing, I'm not sure how that works. Unless someone else came to the scan.

girlmom21 · 14/07/2022 07:50

Greenginghamdress · 14/07/2022 07:46

I don't get it at all but then again I'm quite an advocate for not finding out gender.
I am glad I didn't find out as it was the best surprise in the world.
I do think gender reveal parties are just an excuse to post a video on social media.
In terms of the parents not knowing, I'm not sure how that works. Unless someone else came to the scan.

I didn't do a gender reveal but in terms of it being the best surprise in the world my first question after both births was "is she ok? Why's she quiet?"
I dont think I could have cared less if they'd said either was a boy.

slashlover · 14/07/2022 09:12

Why do so many people post easily googlable things on here? I googled "How do gender reveals work UK" and found the answer in 1 second.

NerrSnerr · 14/07/2022 10:21

I don't know, I have never been to one and certainly couldn't be arsed to organise one but if it makes people happy then why not?

girlfriend44 · 14/07/2022 10:29

I think i would prefer to wait until the baby is here to celebrate.

pilates · 14/07/2022 10:50

I like the surprise.

not my cup of tea but each to their own

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