Name change because this is really identifying
Last year a school bus crashed into me. I was stationary with the handbrake on, she hit my rear drivers side. I have a dash cam which shows her driving at me, the shake of the bump and my (very unimpressed) reaction as she drove off. She only drove a few feet down the road and stopped so I got photos of the driver and license plate. She flatly denied hitting me and said she knew the person behind who would ‘back her up’. The damage to my car was over two panels and took several weeks to fix due to covid staff shortages.
my insurance were amazing, replaced car seats, arranged a curtesy car to be dropped at the house before the car was taken to be fixed, really great. About six months ago I got a letter from them saying the woman was still denying hitting me, but due to the damage (which they said was clearly done by someone hitting me, not the other way around) they would waive all fees and the claim was sorted. Not the outcome I wanted, but at least it was sorted.
then earlier this year I got a letter from the car hire asking for more details, diagrams, descriptions etc. I sent them all in and called to see what was happening but they said not to worry. Today I’ve received a letter from the car hire saying that her insurance is refusing to pay, and they need my lawyer details for the legal proceedings. I’m terrified. She hit me, I was stationary and couldn’t have avoided it. She’s lying, plain and simple. But I’m a single parent with no spare money at all, I can’t afford a lawyer never mind court fees? What the hell do I do? Has anyone been through this? Is it likely to cost me a fortune? I’m so angry about it all, she’s off driving kids around and I’m stuck scared shitless that this will bankrupt me. What can I do?