Traditional British party

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I’m British but live abroad and dc was born where we are. It’s coming up to their 4th birthday and I’d like to do a traditional British mini party at home for grandparents & cousins etc.
So far I’ve got sandwiches, jelly & ice cream, donuts, popcorn, mini pizzas, sausage rolls, crisps & mini British cakes-Mr Kipling etc.
We’ll do pass the parcel, musical chairs, musical statues, Superman song, Birdie song…anymore ideas?
Trying to recapture/remember my 80’s childhood 🤣

I remember the food at the 80s Hogmanay parties my grandparents hosted. There was the must have pineapple, cheese & pickled onion sticks (stuck in a cut grapefruit wrapped in tinfoil) and the ever classy Ritz crackers topped with Primula Cheese. Birthday party food had egg, cheese or ham sandwiches, wotsits, squash and sausage rolls followed with a jelly & ice cream pudding. Ah those were the days.

A retro 80s party sounds amazing, I’m sure your DD will love it

I second What’s the time Mr Wolf?

Neapolitan ice cream with wafers

Fairy cakes

Crisps in a bowl

Iced biscuits

Triangular sandwiches

Prawn cocktail ring (more 70’s I think)

Scotch eggs, mini sausage rolls, quiches, vol-au-vaunts

Thats all I remember from one party I attended

My 1980s birthday party experience:
Decor - balloons galore
Food - sausages on sticks, sausage rolls, ham sandwiches, Dairy Lea sandwiches, egg and cress sandwiches, banana sandwiches, fairy cakes, butterfly cakes, party gems, iced ring biscuits, Cadbury fingers, Cadbury animal biscuits, crisps, cheese and pineapple on sticks. Orange or lemon squash. Paper plates and cups. Girls all in fancy frilly dresses.
Games - Pass the parcel with presents in the layers, most memorable being glittery gold nail varnish. Pin the tail on the donkey. Musical bumps. Musical statues. Oranges and lemons. Hunt the thimble. Simon says.
Going home bags - Tesco paper bags with slice of cake, few sweets, balloon, bouncy ball, scented eraser, frog that you pressed down and it jumped up.
All parties followed this schedule almost exactly.

Don't know the age of the children that are coming, but we did a traditional party with one of ours and we discovered quite an important difference from then to now.

Whereas we were used to a party where you played the game, and were out so sat on the side, they weren't used to this. When they were out, they wanted to know what they could do, because parties to them were constant entertainment. So we ended up printing lots of pictures off for them to colour when they were out, which worked well.
But afterwards the children pretty much all came over saying it was the best party ever, and parents in the next few days told us it was all they talked about.
We did end up doing a 10 minute game of sleeping lions (without telling any of them they were out) in the middle to calm them down.

Our games:
Pin the tail on the donkey
Hunt the thimble
Pass the parcel
Find the dried peas (don't do this if you have under 3s)
Pick up peas with straws by sucking
Flappy fish (you all have a rolled up newspaper and a paper fish and have to get it from one side to the other by banging the newspaper on the floor)
Stepping stones
Musical bumps/statues (I avoided musical chairs because the floor was a bit slippy)
Duck, duck, goose
Matching pictures (you give every child half a picture and they have to find their partner)
Sleeping lions
Treasure hunt (put a sticker on a map to say where the treasure is, nearest gets a prize)

For a party bag we pinned the bags to the wall and every time a child won a prize (or in things like matching pictures paired up, so they all got something) they could do a lucky dip for something little and put it in their party bag.
And at the end they did lucky dip for a book, so they all had a bulging party bag.

In addition to all the above suggestions........ In and out the dusty bluebells, The farmers in his den, Skip to my lou.

Pink blancmange rabbit on plate of green jelly grass.

Gotta have marshmallow top hats!

Can't do that any more, they've bloody shrunk them!

Seconding the chocolate game (although it's hard to find chocolate in foil these days). How about Murder in the Dark? I've had some success rebranding this as 'olden days Among Us' 😂

Squeak Piggy Squeak! I've completely forgotten how to play it though.
THE bumps for the birthday child (a bit like Drunken Sailor), not just musical bumps which are also good

Wow - this takes me back to the kids parties I went to in the 70s!

Squeak Piggy Squeak - IIRC correctly, children sit in circle one child stands in centre, blindfolded. They are turned round a few times by adult in charge, and then asked to point to a child in the circle and say “Squeak Piggy Squeak” child chosen (and who it is often needs confirming by adult!) then makes suitable squeaky/oinky noise, and centre child guesses who it is. If correct they swap places if not child has another go ( I think after three goes, it was deemed to be someone else’s turn).

We also did “Flappy Fish” - I’d forgotten that one - we called it “Flip the Kipper!”

Also What’s the time Mr Wolf and Grandmother’s footsteps (quite similar, always good, particularly if you have a garden or outdoor space to use)