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Neighbour accused me of stealing their tree

257 replies

Ahelena79 · 10/07/2022 16:12

So our neighbour has a lovely willow tree. It does slightly overhang our border however I am very happy with that as it provides a lovely bit of shade in that corner of the garden which the kids sit under on hot evenings.

Around 4 summers ago I took several cuttings from this willow tree. I didn’t really think to ask at the time as they were nearly touching the floor of my garden and had no real impact on my neighbours life. Instead of chucking them back over the fence aggressively (which other neighbours have done to me!) I decided to plant them to grow a bit of a willow garden in one corner.

These willows have absolutely taken off. There’s about 6 in total all taken from branch cuttings. They are really tall now and can be seen from over the fence (which is 6 foot!)

My neighbour has recently seen them and is now demanding that his property is returned to him. He says I had no right to cut the willow and that they have always been his property even though I have nurtured them to life in the form of new trees. He says he will be contacting the police and threatening legal action. He told me that the willow is taken from cuttings of a family tree that was in his mothers garden and he considers it family property which he wanted to hand down to his kids but I’ve now stolen that from him?? He is absolutely crazy to be honest and I’ve had no previous dealings with him and I’m glad of that now!

Where do I stand legally on this?

OP posts:
FictionalCharacter · 10/07/2022 16:24

The police would love that wouldn’t they!
”My neighbour has stolen my tree”
Where is the tree sir?
”in my garden”
So they cut it down or something?
”no, it’s still growing in my garden”
How has the neighbour stolen it then?
<weird ramble about cuttings and his children’s inheritance>

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 10/07/2022 16:24

forrestgreen · 10/07/2022 16:22

Tell him you spoke to your dh, he said those died so he replaced them with ones from the garden centre...

Yep, do this!!!!!!

Ncwinc · 10/07/2022 16:24

I’d give the saplings back to avoid an on the record neighbour dispute that you’ll have to declare when you sell the house (presuming you own it.)

Pleaseletmeconfirm · 10/07/2022 16:26

Unless you have absolutely massive gardens I'd dig them up, let them die then give them back to him. (Also assuming they are not a miniature type)

TabithaTittlemouse · 10/07/2022 16:26

Tell him that you will report him but his tree is trespassing on your property Grin

RedWingBoots · 10/07/2022 16:27

The police won't be interested.

If you get a solicitors letter from him and his tree isn't a rare one - look it up - simply deny your trees are anything to do with his willow tree.

Until then don't engage with him.

In future always ask people if they want their cuttings back or if you should dispose of them.

Georgeskitchen · 10/07/2022 16:27

I would tell him that they blew off his tree in high wind and have rooted themselves in your garden.
I guess it will give the police a bit of a laugh when he rings them 😉

WeAreBob · 10/07/2022 16:28

That's a good point. Where have you planted 6 willow trees?

How do you have space to grow 6 willow trees?
I hope you haven't clumped them all together and they're no where near anyone's house!

RedWingBoots · 10/07/2022 16:28

TabithaTittlemouse · 10/07/2022 16:26

Tell him that you will report him but his tree is trespassing on your property Grin

Won't work.

billy1966 · 10/07/2022 16:28

Deny everything.

Singinghollybob · 10/07/2022 16:30

Just deny you'd told him you'd taken them from his tree he can't prove you did and didn't offer them back to him.

AlisonDonut · 10/07/2022 16:31

Not being funny but willow roots so easily, he could take as many cuttings as he likes from any of the branches and make his own new trees...I'd let him crack on. Unless he saw you take them I'd say that they fell onto your land and you just put them in water and they rooted. As he didn't ask for them back these miracles of nature were potted on and as the roots were grown post the branches falling, you would be happy to return them minus roots and all the additional growth since the moment they landed on your land.

stuntbubbles · 10/07/2022 16:32

Countersue him for trespass, his tree planted itself all over your garden!

BudgetTarzan · 10/07/2022 16:34

Is he going to DNA test your tree to check they are related?

Ahelena79 · 10/07/2022 16:35

We have quite a large garden and they’re at the opposite end so not near anyones foundations for all worried!

I really get I shouldn’t have ever just planted them but just seemed so meaningless at the time! He can only see them as they’re now taller than the fence and he can see them.

I am a little bit worried as one poster said I have clumped them all together! Is this bad and what’s likely to happen if they’re all growing like that? I had this vision of it turning into an end of garden canopy which the children could play under!

OP posts:
JennyForeigner · 10/07/2022 16:36

Offer him cuttings from your trees 😀

DontBlameMe79 · 10/07/2022 16:38

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LavenderfortheBees · 10/07/2022 16:40

I wouldn't plant a willow tree, let alone 6, within 50ft of my house. Can we have a diagram?

Ahelena79 · 10/07/2022 16:42

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That’s what I’m starting to think. I really feel like I have stolen property from him and can’t justify in my head keeping them! However I wouldn’t want to return them as it would destroy the back end of my garden with having to dig all the roots up. Really not sure what to do! I could offer a nominal fee per tree as someone suggested..

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SirenSays · 10/07/2022 16:43

I'd take him a bottle and try to smooth things over. He sounds too crazy to war with.

Isaidnoalready · 10/07/2022 16:44

Does he know they came from cuttings? Could you not say they came from seedlings that sprouted naturally in my garden I simply moved them no theft was undertaken

Nesbo · 10/07/2022 16:44

”Alexa, describe a situation the police wouldn’t give a shiny shit about”.

I wouldn’t engage, it takes 2 to have a “dispute”, a mad neighbour’s ranting about some cuttings doesn’t really count.

Getoff · 10/07/2022 16:44

But bottom line is you are a thief.

Yes, he can sue for the economic value of some Willow cuttings. I'm not sure what that is, but OP needn't worry about a court finding against her, as she can easily pay damages in the form of cuttings from her trees. She is perfectly hedged against this financial risk.

Getoff · 10/07/2022 16:46

I don't think he can claim the rest of her Willow growth as interest, as it was her land and the sunlight that fell on it that created that growth.