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I earn a 6 figure salary...

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herehearher · 09/07/2022 09:49

Just reading another thread and pretty much every post is going on about "6 figure salary" - as if this is some sort of meaningful marker.

But obviously there's a massive difference between someone on £100k and someone on £900k. So by "6 figure salary" are they just essentially saying they earn around £100k? If they earned £250k, how is it acceptable to describe that?

OP posts:
MorningMountainDew · 09/07/2022 10:23

Itisasecret · 09/07/2022 10:12

Sorry, that is bollocks.

My husband and I are both working class, the first to obtain degrees in our family. We work bloody hard for our qualifications and opportunities. I’ve been skint, homeless, lived in council housing, full benefits, the lot.

My husband is an extremely high earner, he worked hard to get where is is and he works bloody long, high pressured days to command his salary.

Enough with the bitter, sweeping statements. Green isn’t a nice colour. Plus, it’s utter crap.

Completely agree with @Itisasecret everyone can get that break or opportunity if they want it. I grew up on one of the roughest housing estates in Paisley. Google Ferguslie Park and you’ll see what I mean.

I worked 3 jobs to get myself through Uni and went on to do my PhD. Both DH and I earn 6 figure sums and he is also working class from a very poor background. It’s not about lucky breaks or knowing people in the right places FFS.

NeedAHoliday2021 · 09/07/2022 10:24

@sst1234 it’s a privilege not to need state support. The majority of people claiming benefits do so when also working bloody hard. If employers paid living salaries there wouldn’t be a need. To imply someone earning 100k is hard done by is madness.

And people in London don’t all earn 100k+ looking at guardian jobs the other day it’s clear that many are on significantly less. That’s why they need state support otherwise who would be carers or cleaners in the capital?

After 100k it’s unthinkable for so many that the difference between 100 and 600k is much of a muchness.

TyneTortoise · 09/07/2022 10:24

sst1234 · 09/07/2022 10:16

OP, the problem is that there is a sizeable proportion of people on MN who disbelieve other posters are when they say they earn 6 figures. They have such a narrow world view that they simply think anyone claiming to earn that on here must be lying. Despite knowing that ordinary people like doctors and civil servants earn this. That’s before you consider people in the private sector and larger organizations.

So the issue is that some many people on here think of it as mythical rather than just poking around them. It doesn’t even require imagination.

Without sounding snobby 100K is quite normal in both my professions (tech/finance). The starting salary for a London tech graduate in an investment bank can be between 60K - 80K, doesn’t include bonus.In auditing (the supposed ‘least’ prestigious accounting role) the Big4 firms pay a minimum of 70K once you qualify, industry pays at least 20K on top so 100K by 25 isn’t rare. Some of those people don’t even have degrees, they’re school leavers who were hired as trainees and passed all the exams!

Perfect28 · 09/07/2022 10:26

Morning Mountain dew good for you. It's a shame all the education you received didn't give you a basic understanding of statistics though.

persianmafia · 09/07/2022 10:27

People on shit wages often work a dam sight harder and longer than those on six figure salary's it's just they never had that break or opportunity

haha this made me chuckle because its so inaccurate. I know people who are wealthy who are complete workaholics and rarely see their family because they are always at work. They have made other life sacrifices in order to have that material wealth.

I also know many people on shit wages who are lazy AF and constantly leave work early or try to skive off at the first opportunity they get.

There are rich lazy people and poor lazy people.

Blanket statements like this are a high indicator of both ignorance and jealousy/bitterness in my opinion.

Martinisarebetterdirty · 09/07/2022 10:27

It’s a different kind of hard when you are a high earner. It’s mentally hard, I am rarely switched off, I mull over work problems on a weekend and on holiday for example, but to say I work harder than a nurse or carer is bollocks, it’s just a different kind of hard.
Earning over £100k is a lot, even in London you aren’t going to make the choice between heating and eating at that level, and that’s why it’s a marker. Plus, it’s a nice round number.

sst1234 · 09/07/2022 10:28

NeedAHoliday2021 · 09/07/2022 10:24

@sst1234 it’s a privilege not to need state support. The majority of people claiming benefits do so when also working bloody hard. If employers paid living salaries there wouldn’t be a need. To imply someone earning 100k is hard done by is madness.

And people in London don’t all earn 100k+ looking at guardian jobs the other day it’s clear that many are on significantly less. That’s why they need state support otherwise who would be carers or cleaners in the capital?

After 100k it’s unthinkable for so many that the difference between 100 and 600k is much of a muchness.

It’s not a privilege but a handicap to need state support. We have a low pay culture in this country because of this obsession with benefits to subsidize low wages. Anytime there is a crisis, the answer seems to be to hand out more money. If low wages were not topped up, employers would have to pay the going rate.

No one should be subsidized by the state to live in London. People in work should be paid their market value by their employer to work in London.

Perfect28 · 09/07/2022 10:31

You don't think teachers are nurses never switch off too? You don't think social workers think about their cases when they try to sleep?

YellowHpok · 09/07/2022 10:31

I was the first poster on that thread to mention a 6 figure salary. I did so only to highly to the OP that her fears about her kids not going to an RG uni were ridiculous.

I mentioned mythical because talk of 6 figure salaries on MN branched invariably turns to calls of BS.

I earn 108k BTW

I come from a WC background and was THRILLED when i finally tipped over the threshold. I cant brag about it in RL so I mention it here instead.

Still worry about money though, especially with cost of living. But I don't have to go round ASDA with a calculator anymore, and the kids can do extra curricular activities. We have a nice house and a clapped out banger, out holidays are camping.

Shoot me 🤷‍♀️

motogirl · 09/07/2022 10:31

I think most people mean in the 100-150k mark when they say it - it means you should be on paper finding life financially easy but many are struggling with very high outgoings, arguably overstretched on their mortgage so they don't have the affluent lifestyle you would imagine. We fall into this income category but we are far from rich, that said we are saving £2k a month for retirement, because of our age we need to

plugee · 09/07/2022 10:34

I earn 7 figs so everyone is poor compared to me!

AnaïsM · 09/07/2022 10:36

YellowHpok · 09/07/2022 10:31

I was the first poster on that thread to mention a 6 figure salary. I did so only to highly to the OP that her fears about her kids not going to an RG uni were ridiculous.

I mentioned mythical because talk of 6 figure salaries on MN branched invariably turns to calls of BS.

I earn 108k BTW

I come from a WC background and was THRILLED when i finally tipped over the threshold. I cant brag about it in RL so I mention it here instead.

Still worry about money though, especially with cost of living. But I don't have to go round ASDA with a calculator anymore, and the kids can do extra curricular activities. We have a nice house and a clapped out banger, out holidays are camping.

Shoot me 🤷‍♀️

Are you using pension contributions to avoid the effective 60%+ tax rate that you get through the loss of your personal allowance?

Replacethis · 09/07/2022 10:37

The OP reads as you trying to minimise an 100k salary as not being much which is tacky considering the current financial situation of a huge chunk of the country.

What's your point?

Martinisarebetterdirty · 09/07/2022 10:39

Perfect28 · 09/07/2022 10:31

You don't think teachers are nurses never switch off too? You don't think social workers think about their cases when they try to sleep?

Assume you’re referring to my post where I clearly said it’s a different kind of hard, but hey let’s nitpick where we can because it’s always a race to be the most badly done to. Presumably social workers and nurses mull over horrors that they can’t switch off from, like I said, a different kind of hard.

herehearher · 09/07/2022 10:39

Sorry YellowHpok, I didn't mean to single you out any more than anyone else and total respect to you for all you've achieved. But you must admit, the thread was quite funny to read as a whole because everyone is going on about "6 figures". Whereas the OP was asking about RG unis!

OP posts:
YellowHpok · 09/07/2022 10:41

@AnaïsM no not currently. I've only just tipped over and have had to get a financial advisor in to assist with what to do next. I find it very complicated tbh. I'm NHS and there are added complications with our pensions that I dont fully understand, but appreciate will bite me in the ass if I don't sort something soon.

YellowHpok · 09/07/2022 10:42

Yeah sorry OP I can see I set the tone.

I'm very fortunate to have found a field of work I am passionate about that pays well. It doesn't make me any more worthy than anyone else

Howmanysleepsnow · 09/07/2022 10:42

In defence of @Itisasecret if her husband works 17 hours 5 days a week he earns £22 ish an hour assuming £100k wage. I work in care, with nurses on £20ph. After tax (assuming the nurses work 40h pw) her husband will have less take home pay per hour than them. So it does seem the high wage 1) reflects the amount of work he’s doing and 2) isn’t dissimilar to a nurses wage, and I’ve never heard anyone complain that nurses are overpaid!

mizzo · 09/07/2022 10:47

sst1234 · 09/07/2022 10:17

Bingo, another person who doesn’t understand the high cost of living in London, especially if you’re not subsidized by the taxpayer. Which £100k earners aren’t.

The average salary in London is I think just under £54k how is double that not a lot of money?

TheCrowening · 09/07/2022 10:48

Martinisarebetterdirty · 09/07/2022 10:27

It’s a different kind of hard when you are a high earner. It’s mentally hard, I am rarely switched off, I mull over work problems on a weekend and on holiday for example, but to say I work harder than a nurse or carer is bollocks, it’s just a different kind of hard.
Earning over £100k is a lot, even in London you aren’t going to make the choice between heating and eating at that level, and that’s why it’s a marker. Plus, it’s a nice round number.

Do you think nurses, carers, social workers just switch off?

Summerg · 09/07/2022 10:52

I’d rather earn £99k for tax purposes

TeresaBlue · 09/07/2022 10:56

In defence of @Itisasecret if her husband works 17 hours 5 days a week he earns £22 ish an hour assuming £100k wage. I work in care, with nurses on £20ph. After tax (assuming the nurses work 40h pw) her husband will have less take home pay per hour than them. So it does seem the high wage 1) reflects the amount of work he’s doing

This is a good point.

I WFH, am paye, and my role offers unlimited overtime.

I'd be on over £100k if I did 17 hours a day! So it's an achievable possibility that I could pull in the mythical six figures in the next year.

But what a way to live - it's not a choice I'd make for any amount of money.

sst1234 · 09/07/2022 10:58

Summerg · 09/07/2022 10:52

I’d rather earn £99k for tax purposes

A perfect example of why lower taxes are good.

Snoopsnoggysnog · 09/07/2022 10:58

Alliumpoppyrose · 09/07/2022 10:06

I earn a six figure salary too 👍. All depends if I'm living in Fantasyland that day or how may zeros I add after the full stop. Life's usually about that one month ment in time you make a great decision or get that lucky break or have friend family in the in the right place.

People on shit wages often work a dam sight harder and longer than those on six figure salary's it's just they never had that break or opportunity.

This is not true! it’s not about having a lucky break. It can be simply about working your way up and achieving promotions. I work with hundreds of people who have done that.

Penrythejanitor · 09/07/2022 10:59

motogirl · 09/07/2022 10:31

I think most people mean in the 100-150k mark when they say it - it means you should be on paper finding life financially easy but many are struggling with very high outgoings, arguably overstretched on their mortgage so they don't have the affluent lifestyle you would imagine. We fall into this income category but we are far from rich, that said we are saving £2k a month for retirement, because of our age we need to

Saving £2k a month!

That's significantly more than a large amount of mumsnetters take home a month .

Believe me, if you can afford to save £2k a month you are not 'far from rich'.

I would imagine that you think this due to the circles you move in.

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