Hi. Am I being unreasonable??
DH has his own business in construction his hours are 8-5/6 ish amd then will do quoting 2/3 times a week which could mean he's out till 7 or up till 9/10 on laptop. I work with him too 8-5 amd then come home cook tea and do house work even putting his pants amd socks away for him. I bring him coffee every single morning. I've done this from day dot but feeling taken for granted now a little. DH doesn't do anything he cuts the grass but sometimes I do this too. He finished work on a tue every week at 4 to play 9 holes of golf. Get back about 8 in the evening. He's only been doing this about 6 weeks. Before it was every now and again he'd play golf. We don't do anything separate it's always as a family that's how it's always been. It's hard during the week but weekends is family time.
We don't have kids together but I have 3 (9,11, 12) from a previous relationship. I split with ex when they where small and they all call my DH dad. They didn't really see there dad but fast forward a few years amd there now spending every other weekend with him fri- Sunday.
I've not been very well this week some bug. It's taken a lot to even cook tea. I've not been to work amd not done house work. Feeling a little better today so been out and bought steak and Camembert amd thought I'd cook us a nice meal maybe a glass of wine and chat. DH rings me amd said one of his friends has asked if he wants to go golf tonight and then I could meet him for food after. I said I didn't feel up to that. His reply was well do you mind if I still go golfing. My voice must have said it all because we got into an argument. Me saying he's already played golf this week amd it would of been nice for him to have offered to cook for me with how I'll I'd been feeling. I was looking forward to us time. His answer we always have us time amd he's going golfing amd I'm being unreasonable. I told him I'm sure it would be different if it was the other way around.
Am I being stupid!!!!