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To say this sign does NOT mean move over now

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DappledThings · 07/07/2022 18:41

Roadworks going on near me, a section of dual carriageway is temporarily reduced to one lane. As you join that section from a roundabout there is this sign (except with only one black arrow for the one lane staying open not two).

The second lane closes in 800 yards. At the closure point there is a standard circular blue sign with a white arrow to the left indicating the lane closes there and to merge into the left lane.

So every day I do that, merrily overtaking 50 or so cars sitting in the left lane for the entire 800 yards.

AIBU to consider that this sign means lane closing in 800 yards and merge where the arrow tells you to and not please pointlessly queue from this point leaving the lane empty for the full 800 yards.

Nobody ever looks pissed off at the merge point and I wouldn't think they had the right to be. I don't understand why everyone queues from so far back. It's so inefficient.

To say this sign does NOT mean move over now
OP posts:
Autun · 08/07/2022 00:45

Driving at 90, slamming on your brakes like you haven’t been warned about the lane closure for the last 3 miles, then cutting someone up who is driving at the speed limit isn’t ‘zip merging’ though is it

swimlyn · 08/07/2022 00:50

Likeli · 07/07/2022 20:00

@swimlyn huh?? How does anyone ever get home if you’re stationary and not ever going to move anywhere?

Seriously?

What's a queue then?

swimlyn · 08/07/2022 00:57

WonderingWanda · 07/07/2022 21:29

People who don't leave gap for other cars to merge at the front making the whole bloody queue slower. If everyone just drove with a big enough gap between them and the car in front.....and knobheads didn't try and fill that gap before the merge then the merge would be a lot smoother.

In reality what happens in the UK is some people in the left lane approach the merge. Several idiots on the right see the sign and slam on their brakes and pull into the spaces on the left, other cars on the left have to brake because their stopping distance has decreased. Now everyone is on the left but going 20 mpg slower. Some new faster people have arrived in the right hand lane and are now slowing down and attempting to filter in between the cars on the left still about a week away from the merge. One of the slow lefties brakes to let a rightie in and then because they are all so close everyone has to break and now they are all doing 10 mph. Meanwhile a BMW doing 80 in the outside lane brakes sharply at the sight of the slow convoy of plonkers and pulls in just in time at the front of the merge. Another 20 cars have joined the back of the queue. They've all just watched the BMW whizz past and decide he's a cock and no one else is pushing in front of them. Now they stop letting people merge and a queue has formed in the righthand lane too. Traffic is now almost stationary whilst every pair at the front of the queue play out a game of chicken, inching in front of each other, bumper to bumper with the car in front, hearts racing at the fucking cheek of that knob head next to them to push in.

Just leave a bigger bloody gap and stay in your lane till the end!!!

This is a perfect summary of how it all goes wrong and you all end up stationary.

swimlyn · 08/07/2022 01:01

WonderingWanda · 07/07/2022 21:32

BTW I have nothing against BMW drivers....my dh is one!

Audi drivers however...
😁😁😁

Tilda77 · 08/07/2022 01:15

"Don't be a dick! Merge like a zip!"😂
I'll be saying this when I hit the roadworks near me in the morning!
Something I've noticed is that everything grinds to a halt at the merge point and some bigger vehicles decide they're going to try and control the traffic by straddling both lanes so no one can pass. HGVs I can sort of understand as they have blind spots but a lot of the time it's vans or minibus taxis doing it.Can be as far back as the 800 yard sign! Makes no difference to the traffic flow😅

Angrymum22 · 08/07/2022 01:17

DS and I started to count the number of bad driving incidents we witnessed during the 240 hours of practice he did while learning. We gave up in the end. The results were predominantly BMW, Audi or Range Rover. We do live in an area with major dealerships for all three so results may be biased.

Clymene · 08/07/2022 04:01

WonderingWanda · 07/07/2022 21:29

People who don't leave gap for other cars to merge at the front making the whole bloody queue slower. If everyone just drove with a big enough gap between them and the car in front.....and knobheads didn't try and fill that gap before the merge then the merge would be a lot smoother.

In reality what happens in the UK is some people in the left lane approach the merge. Several idiots on the right see the sign and slam on their brakes and pull into the spaces on the left, other cars on the left have to brake because their stopping distance has decreased. Now everyone is on the left but going 20 mpg slower. Some new faster people have arrived in the right hand lane and are now slowing down and attempting to filter in between the cars on the left still about a week away from the merge. One of the slow lefties brakes to let a rightie in and then because they are all so close everyone has to break and now they are all doing 10 mph. Meanwhile a BMW doing 80 in the outside lane brakes sharply at the sight of the slow convoy of plonkers and pulls in just in time at the front of the merge. Another 20 cars have joined the back of the queue. They've all just watched the BMW whizz past and decide he's a cock and no one else is pushing in front of them. Now they stop letting people merge and a queue has formed in the righthand lane too. Traffic is now almost stationary whilst every pair at the front of the queue play out a game of chicken, inching in front of each other, bumper to bumper with the car in front, hearts racing at the fucking cheek of that knob head next to them to push in.

Just leave a bigger bloody gap and stay in your lane till the end!!!

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

You can explain this until you're blue in the face though and people still don't get it

DappledThings · 08/07/2022 06:47

Lots of replies since I went to sleep.
Lots more people weirdly cross about me using an empty lane and still describing it as me flying down it and slamming on my brakes at the last minute. Really not the case. I am using most of the lane at the limit of the road then gently reducing my speed near the end of it to the crawl the left lane is doing and merging in turn at the merge point not. No speeding or slamming.

Merging further down makes perfect sense - adjust your speed down (where on earth are you driving that allows you to do 50mph up to the lane closed point?) then merge in turn so that you and all the other cars in the right hand lane slot into moving traffic (which won’t be going at 15mph) before the lane closed point
Where I am doing 50 to the close point is on a straight dual carriageway that has a slow moving queue from for the entire stretch from roundabout to merge point and has an empty lane. It's perfectly possible.

And it really doesn't make perfect sense to sit in a queue next to an empty lane.

OP posts:
picklemewalnuts · 08/07/2022 08:00

Angrymum22 · 07/07/2022 23:32

We have a merging system around our one way system in our small town. Merging depends on everyone driving at the same speed with a decent gap so everyone keeps moving. It has taken many years for old school drivers to not stop and create a huge log jam.
If applied correctly to your situation OP what you should do is slow down to the same speed as the traffic in the lane you are merging into and move over when it is safe to do so. This can be at the end of the lane or anywhere in the 800yds leading up to it it. Driving at 70 mph when everyone else is doing 30mph means that you saturate the merging lane ( more cars trying to merge into too few places - do the physics calculation) and create congestion.
On motorways you often get lorry drivers moving into the lane that is closing down to deliberately slow the speed of merging traffic. They are professional drivers who have seen far two many BMW drivers ( who are exempt from Highway Code rules) drive into the blue sign when they run out of road.
The M5 has a fantastic arse clenching merging point just south of Bristol. It’s a permanent feature and frequently catches BMW drivers out. It’s a clever test if your driving skills, judgement and observation. As a frequent flyer on that part of the M5 I have a little chuckle every time I see an idiot thinking they are being clever on the outside lane, breezing past at 90mph. You only do it once.

This.

It's only merging if you match the speed. If you drive past the inside Lane it isn't merging.
Telling yourself you're a great driver and everyone else is a dick, doesn't make it true.

Onlyforcake · 08/07/2022 08:06

Supposed to merge using the zip process in order to keep traffic moving. Unfortunately a lot of drivers are not so much queuers as hoggers and will block traffic trying to merge in, get quite ragey and irrational about it to, doing dangerous things, not leaving adequate gaps etc. As a lot of people know about the blockers they're forced to reduce the traffic to a solitary lane too early and everyone stops.

DangerouslyBored · 08/07/2022 08:14

People can be so petty. They won’t let you in if you merge later than what they deem to be acceptable.

Same thing happens at a dual carriageway that merges into a single lane after a roundabout on my route to the train station. If you’re in the right hand lane, which you are perfectly in the right to be, those in the left lane won’t let you in and beep and gesticulate 🙄 there is nothing quite like the sort of bell end who gets angry with other road users, going about their business totally legally, when said bell ends don’t know the Highway Code themselves.

ludocris · 08/07/2022 08:22

This video explains it

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SaintHelena · 08/07/2022 08:25

Can't the anti queuers see that if you squash two lanes of traffic into one lane there will be a huge tailback on the lane they are squashing into CAUSING a tailback. It also means that the speed in the lane is much slower as you cannot drive fast while manoevring between two cars whose speed you have no control over so what happens is people already in the lane slow down adding to the tailback.
So it's the late mergers causing the problem, forcing the lane slower not those already in the lane.

DownNative · 08/07/2022 08:44

A few need to read this from the RAC....

"Zip-merging: why drivers who merge at the last minute are right | RAC Drive" www.rac.co.uk/drive/advice/driving-advice/zip-merging/

ludocris · 08/07/2022 08:58

SaintHelena · 08/07/2022 08:25

Can't the anti queuers see that if you squash two lanes of traffic into one lane there will be a huge tailback on the lane they are squashing into CAUSING a tailback. It also means that the speed in the lane is much slower as you cannot drive fast while manoevring between two cars whose speed you have no control over so what happens is people already in the lane slow down adding to the tailback.
So it's the late mergers causing the problem, forcing the lane slower not those already in the lane.

Your first sentence entirely contradicts your last sentence.

riesenrad · 08/07/2022 09:08

EaselArt · 07/07/2022 18:45

Well I queue up and I make sure not to leave a gap for the chancers to bob in at the last minute.

Indeed.

OP this debate comes up all the time on here. The issue is that you need one approach OR the other. Both together don't work.

So either you merge in turn like a zip OR you all get in nice and early and there is no queuing.

But when some people see the sign and get over in plenty of time, and other people leave it to the last minute and push in, that doesn't work.

The Highways Agency needs to make clear. In some locations they have merge in turn signs. Maybe they need them everywhere, although I actually think it works better when everyone gets in early - you often don't have to stop at all.

riesenrad · 08/07/2022 09:11

DownNative · 08/07/2022 08:44

A few need to read this from the RAC....

"Zip-merging: why drivers who merge at the last minute are right | RAC Drive" www.rac.co.uk/drive/advice/driving-advice/zip-merging/

The RAC is not always right.

I wonder if they think those people who ignore their exit on the motorway and then push in at the last minute because they couldn't be bothered to queue, are right, too. Happens. All. The. Time on the M25/M3 junction coming from LHR direction. "Everyone" has satnav these days, yet somehow they don't know they need the 1st or 2nd lanes for the M3. Yeah right.

Covidagainandagain · 08/07/2022 09:47

riesenrad · 08/07/2022 09:11

The RAC is not always right.

I wonder if they think those people who ignore their exit on the motorway and then push in at the last minute because they couldn't be bothered to queue, are right, too. Happens. All. The. Time on the M25/M3 junction coming from LHR direction. "Everyone" has satnav these days, yet somehow they don't know they need the 1st or 2nd lanes for the M3. Yeah right.

I love how the RAC can post something which is legally right and still be told they are wrong 🙄

DownNative · 08/07/2022 09:57

riesenrad · 08/07/2022 09:11

The RAC is not always right.

I wonder if they think those people who ignore their exit on the motorway and then push in at the last minute because they couldn't be bothered to queue, are right, too. Happens. All. The. Time on the M25/M3 junction coming from LHR direction. "Everyone" has satnav these days, yet somehow they don't know they need the 1st or 2nd lanes for the M3. Yeah right.

From this response, it's quite clear you didn't bother to read the RAC link.

They actually cite studies as highlighted by this line:

"Studies reveal that zip-merging reduces crashes, speeding and congestion."

The RAC also cited rule 134 of the UK Highway Code which supports the merge like a zip:

"See rule 134 of the Highway Code:

“You should follow the signs and road markings and get into the lane as directed.

"In congested road conditions do not change lanes unnecessarily.

"Merging in turn is recommended but only if safe and appropriate when vehicles are travelling at a very low speed, e.g. when approaching road works or a road traffic incident. It is not recommended at high speed.”"

And that takes care of your point about how some drivers speed down the outside lane to then push their way in. This behaviour of speeding down should NOT be happening and the Highway Code states vehicles wishing merge in turn further down the road must give way to vehicles already on the inside lane.

So, both the long queues on the inside lane and speeding drivers on the outside lane are in the wrong.

The ones in the right though are those who drive down the outside lane and merge in as per the Highway Code directions. Those who feel the rage at this safe, legal driving behaviour are firmly in the wrong.

DownNative · 08/07/2022 10:00

If people miss their exit off a motorway, the RAC advise drivers take the exit anyway and turn around only when SAFE to do so at an appropriate location.

So, @riesenrad your comment on that is also baseless.

WeAreBob · 08/07/2022 10:20

SaintHelena · 08/07/2022 08:25

Can't the anti queuers see that if you squash two lanes of traffic into one lane there will be a huge tailback on the lane they are squashing into CAUSING a tailback. It also means that the speed in the lane is much slower as you cannot drive fast while manoevring between two cars whose speed you have no control over so what happens is people already in the lane slow down adding to the tailback.
So it's the late mergers causing the problem, forcing the lane slower not those already in the lane.

This is wrong.

Hotchox · 08/07/2022 10:32

Dunno if this has come up before (not reading 100s of messages), but if I ever see 800 yards of no traffic, and an inside lane (or two) already queueing, I'll sometimes slow down, stay in the outside lane, and drive alongside the people moving more slowly. For a little while at least, no one should be zooming up the outside annoying anyone, and usually, another queue forms in the disappearing lane as it's supposed to, and when we get to the end I am usually let in happily since I haven't taken the piss. No idea if I'm doing anything much to help, as I'm not around to see the results, but I'd like to think for a while at least, the merge lane is working as it should.

And yeah, the 'use both lanes/merge in turn' signs should be everywhere when there's a lane closure - no doubt!

TrashPandas · 08/07/2022 10:33

OP this debate comes up all the time on here. The issue is that you need one approach OR the other. Both together don't work.

It works for the people who know how to drive. They get in earlier than the people who join a queue unnecessarily.

picklemewalnuts · 08/07/2022 10:46

Hotchox · 08/07/2022 10:32

Dunno if this has come up before (not reading 100s of messages), but if I ever see 800 yards of no traffic, and an inside lane (or two) already queueing, I'll sometimes slow down, stay in the outside lane, and drive alongside the people moving more slowly. For a little while at least, no one should be zooming up the outside annoying anyone, and usually, another queue forms in the disappearing lane as it's supposed to, and when we get to the end I am usually let in happily since I haven't taken the piss. No idea if I'm doing anything much to help, as I'm not around to see the results, but I'd like to think for a while at least, the merge lane is working as it should.

And yeah, the 'use both lanes/merge in turn' signs should be everywhere when there's a lane closure - no doubt!

Yes, sadly the 'straight to the front and let me in' folks think they are right and the rest of us are mugs.

They think your technique (which I agree with) is weird.

SirChenjins · 08/07/2022 10:52

TrashPandas · 08/07/2022 10:33

OP this debate comes up all the time on here. The issue is that you need one approach OR the other. Both together don't work.

It works for the people who know how to drive. They get in earlier than the people who join a queue unnecessarily.

Not always, depends totally on the circumstances. If, for example, you’re speeding and overtaking a line of traffic in the left lane who are doing the reduced limit (we’ve all seen speeding drivers do that that) and still moving forward, then get to the lane closed point and find you can’t adjust your speed from 60 to 30 in time to move over into a reduced gap (reduced because your stopping distance is reduced if you’re driving at 30), and the cars in front of you and behind you in the right lane have also done the same then you have a number of cars trying to move over from right to left into gaps they can’t get into because their speed doesn’t match the left lane. Cars in the left lane have to slow down or stop, causing cars further down the line to go the same - which causes further tailbacks.

Just use a bit of common sense - unless the traffic is completely stationary in the left then adjust your speed downwards and move over at some point between 800 and 200 and this will keep the traffic moving. Conversely, don’t move into the lane remaining open the moment you see the lane ahead closed sign, keep your distance from the car ahead to maintain a gap and let other drivers in.

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