To feel completely deflated

[Cokacola]

I’m wasting my time chasing after a man. I don’t know why I am doing it. Asking to see him, he won’t ever give a yes or no. It’s always a maybe or I might be able to or I’ll have to see. He leaves me hanging wondering wether I’m going to see him. He said he ‘maybe’ able to come over so I tidied my house got ready but no straight answer. He then said he’s not even had a bath yet. Surely he would make the time if he actually wanted to see me?

If he wanted to see you, he would be more keen to show it. I think he sees you as a last minute option, if all else fails. Sorry. 😔

Yes, if he wanted to see you he'd make the time. It sounds like you're just an option for him. Really sorry.
Block him (I know it hurts) and start moving on.

Eh? Why... oh why.... are you letting yourself feel like sloppy seconds?! If he isn't making your feel like you're worth it, then you absolutely should know that you can do better. Even if it's being single. Know your worth, and ditch him. You do not want weeks, months, years of feeling like this.

He makes me feel so rubbish about myself. Had a hard day which he knows and he even suggested coming to see me but then let’s me down but won’t even say no he just tells me maybe but then ignores me.

How often do you see him? And why are you doing this to yourself?

I think I’m just a big joke to him and he’s getting off on treating me like this. He doesn’t see me or my time as important. I usually see him twice a week but less recently. Haven’t seen him for a week now

Did you not post about this last week?

Fgs block him! He's not that into you so cut your losses and find someone who values you.

He’s just not into you - he isn’t bothered about seeing you, you don’t matter to him, he doesn’t care if he wastes your time, he doesn’t care how bad you feel.

Do you deserve to be treated like this? No - so stop being a doormat. Block him, don’t contact him again, and please find some money for therapy if you possibly can.

Dump him. He isn't interested in you.
You posted about him last week, and got the same advice that you are getting on this thread.

Coming round your house? That you dash around tidying up to make presentable for him?

you’re not even worth a date outdoors for him, love. Raise the bloody bar. You making yourself as accessible as possible will do you no favours. You’re basically putting yourself on a platter and he still isn’t interested.

The chase is over for him and he has you dangling. Don't text or call him. Decide that you deserve better. He'll start calling then. By then hopefully you'll have got over him and moved on. He's not making you happy so he's not worth your energy.