Yes, it's about the bloody school achievements. DD is a good kid, polite,friendly,works hard, never any issues, good parent's evening etc. So far she's had one achievement a year, in some years too. None this year. Everyone else in her class got one , some even two.
She's quite bothered about it because she doesn't understand why. She's quite annoyed by the fact that her friends don't believe her either because she must've got one,but forgot. While she's making noises about it and is quite upset, at the same time she doesn't want me to talk to the teacher because then "I'll only get it because you said something ".
We had the chat about how she achieves in so many other ways , how we recognise her at home, and that her main "reward" is doing so well. She gets that and accepts but every now and then she mentions again.
I'm sure the teacher forgot or she also thinks she gave DD one and it's an oversight. Or maybe she got ticked by mistake (at my school we tick to keep track) .
Would it be terrible of me to mention it to the teacher without DD knowing? Should I just let it go and make sympathetic noises when she complains ,but leave it at that?