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Council flats and pets?

32 replies

Candyflossarmpits · 03/07/2022 23:00

Hiya. Bit of context, I'm a 23 year old living alone in a flat with a balcony. I have in my tenancy for this council property that I'm not allowed pets. Is there any way around this or has anyone experienced getting permission? I'm EXTREMELY lonely. I have been thinking of getting a dog for a while and I think it would really help me mentally and also a bit of company would be nice. I have so much love to give.
I don't have any family and one friend who is only free late in the evenings.
Thoughts? Pls be nice!! 😂

OP posts:
Whichjobnow · 04/07/2022 17:12

I was allowed to keep my dog when I moved into an HA property but only because she was so old and quiet. I have friends in council/HA properties that absolutely are not allowed - e.g. a friend and her fiance live separately because to live together the choice is either she gives up her council property or he gives up his dog. Some people may sneak their pets in but then you're relying on your neighbours not complaining or the council otherwise not becoming aware.

Smaller pets are easier to get consent for - how about guinea pigs or similar? They'd give you company/purpose without impacting on your neighbours and there'd be no need for walks etc.

THisbackwithavengeance · 04/07/2022 17:13

It's not really a rule is it if everyone gets an exception on so-called "mental health" grounds?

Such bollocks.

Keeping a dog in a flat is selfish and anti social. Volunteer at an animal sanctuary if you want to do dog walking.

gratedhalloumi · 04/07/2022 17:18

Why is having a dog in a flat so bad? I live in a spacious flat with a balcony. My dog is walked 3 times a day and is happy. He doesn't ever pee inside either my flat or the communal areas of my building.

Lots of people live in flats and have happy, healthy dogs.

OP - You can only ask. As previous posters have said, don't get one if not approved as it would be devastating to either have to give up your dog or lose your home.

I will keep my fingers crossed for you 😊

WiddlinDiddlin · 04/07/2022 17:18

Ring them or write to them and ask if they can give permission for a pet and what pet they may give permission for.

I wouldn't advise a dog without access to a secure garden - it is do-able but it makes the whole thing a lot more work and a LOT less fun.

A house cat, or a house rabbit however may fit the bill though - there are breeds of cat that are VERY cuddly, friendly, dog-like almost in their affectionateness.

WiddlinDiddlin · 04/07/2022 17:25

gratedhalloumi · 04/07/2022 17:18

Why is having a dog in a flat so bad? I live in a spacious flat with a balcony. My dog is walked 3 times a day and is happy. He doesn't ever pee inside either my flat or the communal areas of my building.

Lots of people live in flats and have happy, healthy dogs.

OP - You can only ask. As previous posters have said, don't get one if not approved as it would be devastating to either have to give up your dog or lose your home.

I will keep my fingers crossed for you 😊

It can work out just fine...

But, getting a new dog either a rescue or a puppy - means housetraining, which means multiple trips up and down trying to get out before they go.

For puppies that may be MONTHS and really slow down house training - not everyone lives in a flat where they want to zoom down three flights of stairs in their dressing gown and pyjamas at 3am to stand on a patch of grass waiting for a weewee...

For adult rescues - again that could still be weeks of rushing them out at all hours until they learn and become confident in their new home.

If you have your own garden, you have outside space to play and train that is secure and you control. If your dog has some behaviour issues for example is reactive on the lead (and many many dogs are its probably the most common behavioural issue going) - then a garden is a great place to start behaviour modification.

Most outdoor training issues first start with limiting the environment and working in a place with low distraction that the handler controls - with a flat with no garden you don't have that option, you're effectively starting halfway to the deep end (or right IN the deep end for some dogs).

Trying to address pulling on the lead, reactivity to people or other dogs, fear of people/other dogs/traffic related issues... when you have to come out of the flat front door and work in public can be an absolute nightmare, for some dogs it would be impossible, they would just get worse and worse, and no matter how much skill the trainer had, you can't train in the wrong environment.

So yes its possible for some dogs, dogs with no issues, who are already house trained.

But for those getting a puppy or an adult rescue, I would avoid doing that if you live in an above 1st floor flat and have no garden. There is a strong chance it won't be fun at all.

BlackTourmaline · 04/07/2022 17:28

I’m in a council flat and have an indoor cat with permission. A tenant downstairs has a dog and it’s loud and I don’t think a flat is suitable for a dog. It’s not fair on the other tennants

girlmom21 · 04/07/2022 17:29

Do you work? The obvious answer is seek company from people, not pets. If you don't work, can you? Or could you join a hobby group?

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