Just need some perspective really. I literally do everything around the home, get up most days with DS even if it's DP turn I just end up with him because I'm usually awake when DS wakes up, I do all the chores and do all the planning/ preparing and other general bits so am already put out by this, despite telling DP all of this very rarely does anything change he may hand washing out one time and then it goes back to the way things were. The last few weeks DP has been poorly one weekend he was in bed all weekend while I made sure he was ok, looked after him and did everything with DS and I didn't mind but when he then had a few more days off missing work but well enough to play PlayStation I had began to loose sympathy. Today was his turn to wake up with DS and he did, I then got up about 7.15 thinking I could have a leisurely morning brew make breakfast and he asked to go back to bed because he wasn't feeling great! I realised I had no sympathy and just said he needs to book doctors appointment as he always seems to be Ill. He's back in bed and I'm just feeling a bit annoyed, we have a very boring life, we work all week, usually he plays PlayStation of an evening and don't do much else, I try to go out do sports, walks, gym, make life a little more interesting. I'm just fed up and need perspective as I know I should have sympathy but yet I don't.