I’m visiting a friend with a newborn and due to some appointments she has has a window of 12.00-3 to visit. I have 2 DC, DS will get picked up at 12 and my plan was to then drive to friends house. Would it be unreasonable to pack a sandwich for them? I am torn. In no way do I want to inconvenience my friend with any mess but I also know they’ll lose their shit if they don’t eat. I could bring them home first and feed them but then by the time I get to my friends it’ll be time to leave.