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To ask. How to get rid of new wrinkles fast?

17 replies

Deereemer · 29/06/2022 23:20

I've had a terrible 6 months. Health scare lost nearly 2 stone. Face haggard, gaunt and major wrinkle increae
Im 44. Im trying to eat healthy fats and so on but what i need as well is the best way to get rid of wrinkles - chemical peel? Botox? Retinoids?
Derma fillers? Advice much appreciated

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MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 29/06/2022 23:21

Taking off your glasses is by far the quickest way.

MinorWomensWhiplash1 · 29/06/2022 23:22

Put the weight back on.

Frankola · 29/06/2022 23:22

Retinol serum. Amazing stuff. Revolution Skincare is fantastic and half the cost of Clarins etc. Hugs your way OP.

Regularsizedrudy · 29/06/2022 23:23

Botox

Glitternails1 · 29/06/2022 23:32

You need to gain some weight back. Are you underweight/borderline now? Skincare won’t work.

SgtPecker · 30/06/2022 04:46

Stay hydrated, and boost your collagen production. You can supplement with collagen powder (in smoothies and a variety of other recipes), and you can also use gelatin powder for the same purpose. Gelatin powder is cheaper than collagen, and I find it works better for me personally. It assists the growth of nails, hair, and stimulates collagen production in the skin, which all lead to a healthier, more youthful appearance.

Wear a good SPF, and make sure to get your time in the sun... 20 minutes per day, whenever the weather permits. I think it's more important (especially when under age 50) to get sun exposure than it is to begin with retinol in any form. Just like a flower, we need direct sun so that we can regenerate.

The problem with using retinol (and any vitamin A supplements) is the heightened risk of sun damage. Beginning on a renitol treatment regimen can cause an "ugly duckling" phase (acne which worsens before it gets better, lots of redness, peeling, etc.) and for some people, it can take several months to see any improvement. This can be a mentally risky approach for someone who is already feeling down about their skin. Women I've spoken to who have used prescribed retinol creams for many years have told me that they recommend a woman waits til she is a bit older (50 and beyond would be perfect), or until this type of serious treatment is the last resort. It is essentially a chemical peel that will be ongoing for as long as you use the cream.

I personally don't see fillers as a good approach, firstly because they tend to stretch the skin out, and this necessitates more and more treatments down the line when the effects wear off and the problem is perhaps worse than when it started. Just as too much weight gain can cause the skin to stretch, fillers can also cause the skin to stretch/sag. However there is a definite happy balance, as maintaining a good, healthy weight will plump the face and give a more youthful appearance.

If you wanted to take the route of cosmetic procedures, though costly, laser rejuvenation, microderm abrasion, and other such skin focused treatments are a good approach. It's all about revealing a layer of brand new skin which can then be tended to and cared for properly to sustain the 'glow' for as long as possible. The effects of these treatments can last about 5 years.

None of us stay young forever, but that doesn't mean we can't have that glowing 'new' skin... make sure you stay moisturized and exfoliated. I would recommend a Vitamin C serum. They tend to be gentle yet the effects can be profound after extended use. I call them "skin food."

Lastly, remember to be kind to yourself, in thought and in action. You are beautiful, and you are enough just as you are.

notagaim · 30/06/2022 07:15

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 29/06/2022 23:21

Taking off your glasses is by far the quickest way.

This proper made me chuckle!

Jurassicparkinajug · 30/06/2022 07:27

I've spent a fortune on different skincare and treatments. Morpheus 8, collagen wave,peels, hydrafacials but by far the most effective was botox. You need to find someone who goes for a natural look otherwise it can be terrible. Its difficult to find someone, reviews can be fake. Many younger people have botox now so if you know any through work or whatever and feel comfortable asking, they may be able to recommend someone.

Morpheus 8 can be good for saggy skin and other things. But it's expensive and it was too painful for me.

Retinol is by far the best skincare product. You need to start a low strength and build up. Buy retinol on its own not the ones in a moisturiser. Takes months to work though and you must wear spf.

Find a good clinic that you trust who do the treatments like I mentioned and get their advice. Don't rush it otherwise you might pick a bad salon.

Deereemer · 30/06/2022 08:03

@SgtPecker thank you for the beautiful post!

Very Good advice.

All good advice - im 44, i was 11.5 stone now 9.5 stone, im 5 foot 5.

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MissMaple82 · 30/06/2022 08:22

Botox. Otherwise nothing, no cream in the land will get rid of wrinkles despite what they claim. Its all bullshit

LemonSwan · 30/06/2022 08:29

I am not 44, but I didn’t see you writing acids as an option. To me acids are gold for resurfacing. Glycolic works well for me and plumps my forehead wrinkles.

LemonSwan · 30/06/2022 08:30

I should say you have to be careful with acids and other actives compatibility. Not sure you can use with retinol.

Thelostwoman50 · 30/06/2022 08:49

Look into HIFU

Wanderingowl · 30/06/2022 09:02

Number one, get sleep if you aren't. It will be the number one thing you can do to make your face look better. Two, exercise will help, as regular exercise slows ageing. Three, saturated fats. They aren't bad for you, there has never been any evidence that they are bad for you. So, unless you are vegan/lactose intolerant, go with full fat dairy and plenty of eggs. Also maybe add a probiotic to your diet, as unhealthy gut bacteria can have numerous negative effects.

Lastly look at the work of Dr David Sinclair on anti-ageing. There is research on what we can do to slow/reverse our mitochondrial ageing. I follow some of his research and am definitely looking and feeling significantly younger. I don't do intermittent fasting though, as the research on that is nearly all done on men, and what little research there is on women shows it may cause hormonal disruption.

Bunty55 · 30/06/2022 09:46

I do not know what the answer is but if it were me I would be making sure I drank plenty of water.

I have seen adverts on the back of buses for weight loss programmes and the before and after photos all look the same with a massive difference in the body weight but the dieter always looks about ten years older plus, facially.

Water.. and lots of it ..plumps out the skin. It's all you can do apart from putting the weight back on and getting botox ?

nickthefox · 30/06/2022 14:54

hemorrhoid cream apparently

amijustparanoidorjuststoned · 30/06/2022 15:40

Botox, chemical peels, retinol, microneedling.

All of the above if you can afford/access it.

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