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To not want to let the little things go?!

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Groundhogliving22 · 29/06/2022 09:53

I can’t believe I am complaining about DH but I am just so sick of him doing little things wrong because I feel like they build up and annoy me more.

for example I asked him to take the washing out to the dryer as I was going to bed. I knew there was already washing in the dryer which would have finished but didn’t think I needed to say anything. I asked him where that washing was this morning because I couldn’t find any of the dark wash and I knew before I said anything that he would have just left it outside on top of the dryer after he’s taken it out. I shouted downstairs to him could he go get it from outside and then asked him in a passively aggressive tone why he’d left it outside. He said he doesn’t know but he uses a tone as if to say stop nagging me 😡

he brought the basket upstairs and I said I would rather he either be 100% useless or do stuff right the 1st time but he can’t be half and half because it just makes my
blood boil. My parents used to joke when I was a child that I would only do half a job and now I know why it is so annoying 😣

AIBU to say that doing a half a job is more annoying than not helping at all?

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FreeRangeFloozy · 29/06/2022 11:46

It’s not a little thing though, it’s an adult behaving like a helpless child. Who can be doing with that 😖

If this is typical of him I think your relationship is in trouble because it’s difficult to respect someone who is so pathetic.

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