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AIBU?

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Re the neighbours

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SSDDagain · 28/06/2022 16:05

We moved in August 2021.
Mutual exchange via council (they arranged it all. I didn't have to find a place)

Since being here we've had numerous random knocking on the door asking for previous tenant. Saying some pretty diabolical things. Seems to be a kind of vigilante group.

Ended up getting the safer neighbourhood team round as it was getting a bit much.
They recommended a ring doorbell, among other things. We asked the police if this was OK as we have a shared porch.

Were advised that as long as it was flat facing directly up the pathway (also shared) we were fine.

Finally got one installed last week.

Next door neighbour (who we have nothing to do with, mainly because she was very stand offish at first, and more so now that they've taken to having domestics on the daily) has said her landlord isn't happy as he owns the property and part owns the path. Apparently we may be getting a letter about it soon.

The doorbell only shows the porch, the path and maybe a tiny corner of the neighbour's drive. (There's a wall between path and drive)

There's nowhere else we can put it. The porch would block any view if we put it on the other side and we can't attach it to the porch itself as it's just brick so nowhere to power it.

It doesn't show the house, the other front door, we can't see neighbour at her front door etc.

Also have got it audio activated so not listening in to any conversations.

I feel relatively secure as I did query all this with the police when we installed it, but it appears that the landlord is going to try and make us remove it from what she said.

I'm awaiting call backs from CAB and the safer neighbourhood team to clarify if I've done anything wrong.

So AIBU to leave it where it is until I've heard back.

OP posts:
ImpartialMongoose · 29/06/2022 17:37

SSDDagain · 28/06/2022 22:14

This is very much my take on it.

I believe she has issues with her teenager and I think she kicks him out the front when he's misbehaving.

Assuming she doesn't want anyone recording the language that's being used, or the things she says to him, but that's another thread entirely!

Hmm, perhaps she should rethink her strategy with her son, if her behaviour towards him is so awful she doesn't want it on record, rather than lie to you for her own selfish ends.

70kid · 29/06/2022 18:03

@CallOnMe
where I live you can do a normal mutual exchange
but they also do a what is known as a managed mutual exchange

so in my neighbours case because of the ASB stuff / crown court conviction he had no choice as he couldn’t even enter the street for 3 years so he had to move so the local council basically arrange a mutual exchange with another house but my neighbour gets very very limited choice .
he has to take a 1 bed flat / studio as he is a single man with no dependents

if he didn’t take it then they would evict him

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