To have hardly any/no contact with parents

[KeepItLight82]

I love my mum but since she's been with her partner I don't know her anymore. He is horrible about people. Calling them fat when they're not even overweight (not that I think it's right anyway!), judging everyone's appearance all the time, talking ill and making jokes about gay people, saying the N word about black people. I just cannot stand it anymore.
My mother has also become extremely judgemental and talks about peoples weight, saying they need a meal or they're a unit etc. They call people ugly and I just hate it.
They also accepted the fact my partner pushed me to the floor in front of baby and has done it before.
I'm not sure if I should just poke up with it, but it's making me ashamed to know them. I hate people like this and if I pull them up on it they look at me, get defensive and carry on.

That's awful behaviour. Is there no way you could speak to your mum alone about her behaviour? Has she only become like this since she met her partner?
Also are you still with the partner who pushed you?
I hope you have other supportive family or friends?

Sounds like the parents are the least of your troubles

2 very different issues.
LTB

My daughter married a racist fascist man and has turned her back on her siblings and their children. He is fat and bald so no oil painting himself but seemingly has a lot to day about people gay/asian/black.

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Yes i have spoken to her. She defends him and claims some peoples humours are different and everyone has flaws. She has only been like this since being around him.

I am still with my partner. I don't have supportive family or friends who know about this.

Sorry, I didn't mean to drop that like a bomb. To me it's normal now so I guess I glaze over it?