DH Drunken Shenanigans

[SleepyDibill0]

Hi everyone! Just need to went really as feeling quite peed off with DH... Long story short, DH went out with his mates last night for 'a few beers'. Fast forward to midnight, comes home and goes bed. Half hour later I wake up to the sound of puking so go to check on him. There's vomit all over upstairs landing carpet, walls, bathroom floor, door, side of the bath, toilet etc. You get the idea! Spent around an hour cleaning it up so DD aged 3 don't step in it in the morning. DH went back to sleep only to then throw up down the side of fabric divan bed onto the carpet (missed the bucket and towel I've put down for him). Had a horrible sleep as spent ages cleaning up sick and tending to DS who is a couple of months old. When DH wakes up I bet he will argue it's 'his weekend and that he should be allowed to do whatever he wants'. I'm on mat leave so such thing as a weekend doesn't really exist for me and now he will be useless all day. Also the money is tight at the moment and he spent quite a lot on drinks from what I can see meanwhile I have been going without many things as I can't justify spending money we don't have. AIBU to be peed off? Feel like going out shopping for the day and leaving him with the kids to clean up the remaining mess... 😤

Not unreasonable at all! I agree with others here, he should be on his hands and knees asking you to forgive him. You are not HIS mother and his sickness is self inflicted.
He says it's "his weekend" OK, then next weekend it's your weekend. Go stay with a friend for the weekend and leave him with the kids!
He needs to grow up!

Finally some commonsense, though there are other common sense posts as well is.good.to see. You are right some are projecting their issues and fears onto others which is unfair. If op was vulnerable in other ways and influenced rather that being a strong woman telling her to leave her DH could.cause.her serious trauma and upset and may break up a family over a one off incident.

Yeah he has the right to have a night out with his mates but that’s the behaviour of a teenager who doesn’t know their limits. Dreadful.

Me too, I have done that before, ex came home from work night out, I out him to bed and went out with my friend, when I returned he had puked all over my new bed, mattress and flooring, made him get up and clean it there and then

Wow OP, you have the patience of a saint!! I would have made him clean up his own vomit, especially if he uses the excuse "it's my weekend, I'll do what I want". If thats the casw then "it's your vomit, you'll clean it how you want".

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