I really need some advice as I have no idea what to do.
Ive been dating a guy for 2 months and we spoke for a while prior. When we first starting speaking he was the one chasing me, always asking to see me, trying to get to know me. He said all the right things that he wanted to see me regularly and could see it progressing to more but now 2 months in it’s the other way round.
When we are together we do get on really well and seem to enjoy each others company but things do not seem to be progressing. I feel like I’m clutching at straws because he seems a lot less available recently.
He seems to text me a lot less too. Sometimes leaves me on read and keeps me hanging. When I ask when he next wants to see me I never seem to get a straight answer or he avoids the question which makes me question if he does actually want to see me again and he will say ‘of course I do’ but no plans.
I have tried to ask him if he has changed his mind as this is what he feels like but he says ‘don’t be daft, I’m just busy’ or ‘I would tell you if I had changed my mind but I haven’t’ but it just feels that way. I feel like it’s me making all the effort now.
I suffer with anxiety and sometimes need reassurance which he knows. I know I need to walk away but I’m worried about being alone again. I’m a single parent and he is the first guy I have dated in three years so it was a big thing for me to start dating and meet someone and I feel hurt