To remove kids from school because of other parent?

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One of the school mums keyed our car in March because hubby asked her to move up a bit she was in 2 spaces. I have posted about it before but anyway she was caught keying the car by other parents. She then was racist to me and the other parents witnessed it and gave statements.

I am still waiting for CPS to charge her (if they do), but I still have to see her 3 times a day. I feel so flipping angry I only had my brand new car a week when she keyed it. Today she has been sticking her fingers up at me on the morning school run and on the nursery run at 12:00.

I was so angry i honestly felt like I was at breaking point! I turned the car around and asked her who the hell does she think she's swearing at. The school have allowed her to hurl racist abuse at me and damage my car.

I'm starting to think about changing the kids to a different school so I don't have to deal with her anymore.

AIBU? Or do I just stick it out. Unless she gets charged I think I will always be so angry about it.

I'm really sorry this has happened to you and this obnoxious woman is continuing with her appalling behaviour, but if you remove your DC from the school then this woman has won.
Continue to gather all the evidence she throws your way. Photograph/video/record her on your phone and report to the police every time until the CPS have no choice but to prosecute. I realise it's not pleasant for you and your family having to put up with this but unless someone stands up to racism then nothing is going to change.

I think this may be the best course of action op, but it’s a disgrace that you have to do the job of the police for them to actually take any action against her. She has committed a hate crime and she should be punished accordingly.

And while the school have no powers to prosecute they have a duty of care to your dc who are witnessing this. As a minimum they should be ensuring that she is kept well away from school grounds and they need to involve the police directly when she is abusive.

To be fair, what do you suggest the school can do? They have absolutely no power to ban her from the area outside the school.