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Horses on the road - rant !

187 replies

Itsabeautifuldayoutside · 24/06/2022 12:04

Sorry just needed a bit of a rant. I know not everyone is like this, and to everyone who drives respectfully around horses- thank you so much, it’s so appreciated.

Unfortunately some people are completely selfish (and stupid!) and drive carelessly around horses and my post is directed towards them. It’s the law now- drive at less than 10mph, give at least 2 metres of space and don’t make unnecessary noise (engine reving, beeping horn). Why is this so difficult to understand? Going out hacking is so, so stressful because of other people’s selfishness. If you can’t follow the Highway Code then you shouldn’t have a driving license.

My stables has fields and off road areas for riding, but the destruction of bridle paths meant that to get to the off-road areas you have to hack on a country road. Also, sometimes horses need to be out hacking or on the roads for training, working or health reasons. It’s not just for leisure. I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve been sworn at, tailgated, hassled, overtaken at insane speeds, overtaken with no space.

Last week I was overtaken by someone at easily 40mph+ who was so busy hassling me and beeping their horn that they didn’t check for the oncoming traffic. After pulling out, they had to speed up even more and pull back in to our side of the road- nearly knocking my horse over. Luckily my boy is fantastic on the roads and is the most bombproof hacker, but this could have been so, so dangerous for everyone involved and unfortunately isn’t unusual.

side note- my horse weighs around 600kg. Even if you’re selfish and don’t care about me, or him, or other road users- why would you want to risk him landing on top of your car in an accident?!

OP posts:
ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:04

Lockheart · 24/06/2022 23:54

Did you not check your mirrors?

How fast were you trying to take this "sharp bend" that you had to brake "hard"??

How do you know he did not have a driving licence and hadn't passed a test?

It is eye-opening how often people will blame their own inattentive / impatient / unobservant / otherwise poor driving on other road users.

Of course I checked my mirrors but he was travelling very fast and squeezed into a space that was barely wide enough for him. I wasn't travelling fast but even so I had to brake hard as I was in a hair's breadth of squashing him.
As above he hasn't got a licence to ride a bike on the road because there isn't one. I've got a driving licence but it doesn't mean I can drive anything, a bus? No. An HGV? No. I could get on a horse or a bike but I wouldn't be safe on them as I can't ride either to a standard that would be safe on the road.

I wasn't inattentive, fortunately for him despite his inappropriate actions I stopped. I wasn't impatient, I waited for a suitable break in the traffic to pull on to the main road. I'm not a poor driver, I've got a clean licence for 50 years.

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:07

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 08:42

Well she should have checked, but the cyclist is also not allowed to pass on the left

its called filtering and it’s allowed in the uk as in the Highway code 67

@ancientgran As of 29 January, pedestrians have new priority when crossing road junctions, while cyclists have priority when passing a turning car, under a new hierarchy of road users. Perhaps you’re not aware of these changes, but then the irony is you’ve passed a test to have a licence to drive and if you’re not aware of the changes 🤷‍♀️

They might have priority but they'd be insane to run out in front of a moving car wouldn't they? Priority isn't a magic shield.

He came up very fast, I assume he had come out of a cul de sac just behind the junction and risked his life to get in front of me. Two minutes later on the main road I passed him. Was it worth it?

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:11

ILikeHotWaterBottles · 25/06/2022 16:00

Rule 67: when cycling on the road, only pass to the left of large vehicles when they are stationary or slow moving and you should proceed with caution as the driver may not be able to see you. Be particularly careful on the approach to junctions or where a large vehicle could change lanes to the left.

So cyclists should be careful when approaching junctions. Also,

Rule 74: Turning. When approaching a junction on the left, watch out for vehicles turning in front of you, out of or into the side road. If you intend to turn left, check first for other cyclists or motorcyclists before signalling. Do not ride on the inside of vehicles signalling or slowing down to turn left.

So the cyclist was wrong to do what they did.

Although this is a bit confusing when the above is new, but this is also in there: Added a new rule H3 about not cutting across cyclists, and not turning at a junction if to do so would cause a cyclist going straight ahead to stop or swerve.🤔

So the driver can't turn if a cyclist is there, and the cyclist can't go if the car is wanting to turn..

Thank you.

The main thing is whatever the rule is use your common sense and he didn't. I was cuatiously making the manouvre and he came past far too fast and put himself in real danger.

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:12

but he was travelling very fast

it was a bike you said, so how can a cyclists be travelling very fast? The average cyclist travels at 17mph so hardly fast 💨 drivers travel at 3 x that speed and it’s still legal on many roads

you have a driving licence but don’t keep up to date with changes in the HC and it would have been your fault if you hit the cyclist as pedestrians, cyclists and horses have priority at junctions

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:13

thedancingbear · 25/06/2022 15:33

This is nothing except your poor observation. If they have only ‘whizzed into view’ Once they are almost past you, that necessarily means that you have not checked your mirrors.

Typical entitled driver.

I had checked my mirrors. He was travelling far too fast to go round the corner anyway. I assume he guessed that as I was moving the main road was clear so he could get round on to it but that is a stupid thing to do.

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:14

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:03

He doesn't have one that is for riding a cycle on the road because there isn't one. Whatever he had or hadn't learned about driving a car didn't apply to driving into a very tight space between a car and a wall because he couldn't have done it in a car.

the Highway Code is for all users of the road, and when you take your driving theory test - do you have sections on the Highway Code you are told not to learn as it’s not relevant when driving?

How many questions about riding a bike do you get asked on your test? Not questions about bike riders but about riding one? I didn't get asked any and I have no idea which sections of the highway code he read because I don't know him and I didn't stop him to ask.

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:14

The main thing is whatever the rule is use your common sense

you have to stick to the HIghway code regardless of whether you determine it’s common sense or not and the reason for that is so everyone knows what you should be doing in your car whilst driving

SexyLittleNosferatu · 25/06/2022 17:16

Lockheart · 24/06/2022 12:15

YANBU at all. Many drivers forget they are only on the road by licence, and it is a privilege that can be taken away. Pedestrians, cyclists, and horse riders are on the road by right.

What does this mean? Genuinley. I'm not being snippy, I would like to know!

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:16

ancientgran

did you have to revise the entire Highway Code or just the parts relevant to driving?

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:16

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:12

but he was travelling very fast

it was a bike you said, so how can a cyclists be travelling very fast? The average cyclist travels at 17mph so hardly fast 💨 drivers travel at 3 x that speed and it’s still legal on many roads

you have a driving licence but don’t keep up to date with changes in the HC and it would have been your fault if you hit the cyclist as pedestrians, cyclists and horses have priority at junctions

I do keep up to date on the rules but amazingly that didn't enable me to see him as he whizzed past me.

He wasn't travelling at 17 mph, he was faster than that and I was moving much slower than him.

It is amazing how people on here make things up.

Octomore · 25/06/2022 17:17

SweetPeaGirl · 24/06/2022 12:30

I always wonder where these people are going that a 2 minute delay to keep everyone safe is too much trouble.

I don't ride, but I live rurally with lots of country lanes and a couple of riding schools nearby and I just consider it part of the deal. If you don't want to pass horses safely, go live in a city centre where you won't need to.

This. Negotiating narrow single track roads, and dealing with other road users like horses and pedestrians (no pavements!) is part of the deal if you live rurally. What planet are these drivers on?

Society seems to get ever more self centred and selfish.

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:18

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:16

ancientgran

did you have to revise the entire Highway Code or just the parts relevant to driving?

What I had to do isn't relevant but actually I did learn it all. Did he? I have no idea. I have no idea if he is licensed to drive a car or a bus but I know he isn't licensed to ride a bike because there isn't a test and licence for it but I think there should be.

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:19

SexyLittleNosferatu

your driving licence can be revoked and thus you lose the right to drive - this you’re there by licence

horse riders, cyclists and pedestrians are not in that position, their rights to use the roads can’t be revoked. They don’t have a licence to lose

Octomore · 25/06/2022 17:19

SexyLittleNosferatu · 25/06/2022 17:16

What does this mean? Genuinley. I'm not being snippy, I would like to know!

It means exactly what the poster said.

Drivers do not have an unalterable right to drive on the road. Their driving licence can be taken away.

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:21

ancientgran

my point is you haven’t kept up to date with the Highway Code so you put his life in danger by your ignorance of the chances - so your licence and test wasn’t relevant

Kately · 25/06/2022 17:22

We live in the New Forest and have horses, ponies, cattle and pigs roaming around on the roads. Locals know to be careful (and usually are) but when the tourist season hits it can be carnage.

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:22

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:14

The main thing is whatever the rule is use your common sense

you have to stick to the HIghway code regardless of whether you determine it’s common sense or not and the reason for that is so everyone knows what you should be doing in your car whilst driving

No you follow the rules, stay within the rules but you don't imagine that will magically keep you safe so you observe what is going on around you. So as an example I live near a country road with national speed limit, I can tell you it is not safe to drive that fast on that road, in the 25 years I've lived here there have been many accidents, some fatal on that road, because people drive too fast. They are following the highway code aren't they but they should use their commonsense and realise that a narrow country road with lots of bends requires driving somewhat slower.

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:22

ancientgran Do you know about the hierarchy changes?

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:24

They are following the highway code

the HC doesn’t state the speed limit is a target and does state to drive to the conditions of the road

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:24

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:21

ancientgran

my point is you haven’t kept up to date with the Highway Code so you put his life in danger by your ignorance of the chances - so your licence and test wasn’t relevant

I have kept up with the highway code. Keeping up with the highway code did not mean his manouvre was safe. I didn't put his life in danger, he did, not just from me going round the bend but by joining a busy road when he couldn't see how close traffic was on a road with a speed limit of 40 mph. Would you close your eyes and go round the corner onto such a road without looking?

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:26

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:24

They are following the highway code

the HC doesn’t state the speed limit is a target and does state to drive to the conditions of the road

Exactly, you have got it. The following the rule of 30/40/60 mph does mean it is safe to do it, you use your commonsense, you don't break the speed limit but you judge the safety and if necessary reduce your speed.

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:30

ivykaty44 · 25/06/2022 17:22

ancientgran Do you know about the hierarchy changes?

Yes. Because of the speed he came at with me already turning the corner the hierachy wasn't the point.

I wasn't trying to trump him, I stopped as I saw him in time, he was riding dangerously fast, doing a dangerous manouvre (narrow Devon lanes with high walls at the side that he could have easily touched as he was so close) and then he joined the main road when he couldn't possibly see if traffic was coming as I would have been blocking his view even if I was stationary.

VanityCalling · 25/06/2022 17:31

My old yard was in the countryside so the only roadwork needed to get to bridlepaths was country lanes. Drivers were generally arseholes, so much so that I bought and wore a GoPro to deter their bad driving, with a big camera sticker on my hi Viz.

Current yard requires a limited amount of travel along a busy A road to get to the endless miles of off road hacking. Drivers tend to pass wide but a bit fast and are, on the whole, far more considerate than those on the country lanes. No one likes riding on busy roads but have a look at a map sometime and tell me how else we're supposed to get to the bridlepaths that start in the middle of nowhere?

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:31

ancientgran · 25/06/2022 17:26

Exactly, you have got it. The following the rule of 30/40/60 mph does mean it is safe to do it, you use your commonsense, you don't break the speed limit but you judge the safety and if necessary reduce your speed.

That should be doesn't mean it is safe to do it.

Lockheart · 25/06/2022 18:27

SexyLittleNosferatu · 25/06/2022 17:16

What does this mean? Genuinley. I'm not being snippy, I would like to know!

It means that you, me, anyone else (barring some sort of extremely specific ASBO, I suppose) can pick up a bike and take it out on the road, legally. Similarly we could also go for a walk on the road or take a horse out. This applies to all roads except motorways, which, as their name indicates, are for motorised vehicles only.

Everyone has the right to use the roads in these ways.

But neither of us could simply get in a car and take it onto the road without first passing tests and obtaining the right licence. And that licence can be revoked if you drive badly. We do not have an inalienable right to take a car onto the road. We drive by licence, not by right.

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