Aibu to think wtf?

[Yorkshirepudding27]

I have a regular sexual partner. He were chatting tonight and he told me he was horny. I offered him to come round to mine (literally round the corner) to help out. Didn’t mention sex. He said Lol I’m in bed and basically that he was watching porn. Aibu to think wtf? Now this has made me think I’m not good enough? Or am I over reacting?

Yeah if I'm in bed already then I'm not getting up, dressed and coming round, porn it is. It was just a passing comment that he was horny and going to sort himself, not looking for you to help out, I can see why you'd be a bit miffed though.

YABU. He was probably looking for a bit of sexting. He’s already in bed. I couldn’t be arsed getting up and out if I was

Seems like you have feelings for him. Do you?

Go round there ?

Maybe he was hoping you’d say that and is a bit disappointed that you didn’t?

Seems reasonable, not to want to get up again tbf.

Probably wanted you to go round there or engage in some sexting.

Thanks all. We did sext after and he told me I was teasing. You’re right, he was in bed and he told me prior that he was tired when we was just having a normal chat so I suppose I’m over thinking things

@Yorkshirepudding27 hmmm, I can’t help but feel that you feel you deserve better, is that right? I know you haven’t told us much so I might be over interpreting here, but surely a bit of enthusiasm and intensity is not too much to expect from a purely physical relationship. Sounds to me like he’s possibly taking you for granted a bit, and you’re not feeling it.

Massively over thinking.