Hi everyone, to cut a long story short: husband had an affair with work colleague. Discovered at the start of the year by me. Very soon after it finished but there were a couple of further communications. Her saying she had no regrets, my husband seemingly disagreeing… Him emailing her something work related but branching off into a joke. Since then my husband has continued to work in the same job / environment with her office being metres from his. He has stated that they have NO COMMUNICATION at all. I found this hard to believe so yesterday I popped into his office to say hello. Everything was polite and cordial and I didn’t see the OW apart from passing her office but it has its confirmed to me that they are working still in such close quarters.
Alongside my husband says that it will ruin his life (dramatic, I know) if he has to move jobs for a pay cut (he has a promotion at work which wouldn’t be instantly transferable). He has applied for a couple but he always puts the burden back on me about how difficult this is for him and how I should see it from his perspective? I then start to feel guilty like I should be accepted that he says he doesn’t see her / have feelings for her?