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To think we're still judged on accents a lot

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Francais223 · 21/06/2022 20:27

I live in the Greater Manchester area but don't have the accent as I didn't grow up round here.
Have been called 'well spoken' before.
I work in care part time, and a 'professional' role otherwise.
Without mentioning any of my education or other work, a couple of people have told me they could 'tell that I was better educated', and a lady told me that she didn't know why I worked in care as I 'seemed intelligent'.
For some reason I don't think they'd be making these remarks if I had a strong Manc accent, though I could be wrong.
Also a ridiculous and rude assumption that people working in care must be unteliigent and uneducated.

OP posts:
StoneofDestiny · 21/06/2022 20:49

Wouldn't dream of covering up my accent. I'm Glaswegian. I love accents. Of course it's important to be understood by your audience. So appropriate grammar and articulation is important - but it's great to hear a variety of accents.
My accent has never held me back though I'm aware certain stereotypes are assumed when I speak. Couldn't care less - their ignorance.

BatshitBanshee · 21/06/2022 20:55

I'm Irish. I had security at two different Manchester bars ask me if a) I am a traveller or b) am I in the IRA. (Neither by the by, I'm a Dubliner)

In London I was told I'm "very well spoken" and "well educated" for an Irish person, as well as being told I had "more money than [they] thought Irish people would have". These remarks were made by people who had only met me in passing.

(Post Brexit I was also told "we'll send you home paddy" by very obnoxious people who were really quite serious...)

So yes OP, we are judged quite heavily on accents.

headintheclouds123 · 21/06/2022 20:56

I'm from Liverpool, as is my partner. When he was a student at uni, him and a few of his friends applied for an outbound part-time customer service role selling insurance.
He was told they couldn’t employ him as people wouldn’t trust him!!

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