So, to set the scenario. Been with current partner 6 months. Previous to us getting together his cousins wedding has been rearranged numerous times due to covid and the hotels rooms were booked and deposits paid.
I am invited as a plus one to the wedding night do, not the wedding or wedding breakfast as numbers were kept small for that.
The subject of paying the outstanding amount for the room has come up (only deposit has been paid so far) and we're usually a fair is fair go halves type of couple. I feel like I'll be milling around the hotel a bit bored whilstbtheyre all at the wedding and wedding breakfast as there's not much to do in the surrounding area
AIBU to think I maybe shouldn't have to pay half for the hotel as when it was originally booked my partner would of initially of planned staying in the room alone and expected to pay in full himself anyway? (Room hasn't been upgraded or anything since I was his plus 1)
I'm an independent woman and all that and we usually go halves just seems a bit weird when he'd of paid himself originally.