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To tell you why I’m supporting RMT

29 replies

Isahlo · 21/06/2022 15:02

Today it’s seems apt, to tell you why I support RMT
In the midst of a slanging match, where everyone I know keeps calling them greedy and selfish I want to tell you how people who were more than likely RMT union members (and a single kind member of the public stranger) saved my life

to start I will say, RMT isn’t a union full of drivers, it encompasses all kind of transport and maritime jobs too. But today I am talking train people. Not drivers but conductors, collector’s, cleaners and others.

five years ago in summer of 2017 I was a 21 year old law student, almost twenty weeks pregnant, stressed, anxious, manic and floridly psychotic

flittering between the people I loved, pretending to stay over here there and everywhere I evaded my friends, family and now husband
driving for hours and hours every night to escape the voices I was hearing that came from the old ladies where I lived. My lack of sleep only fuelled my mental illness. And I finally conceded, listened to the voices and planned my suicide, and if that was not successful my abortion.

I travelled by train through the night alone. I was cold. I had a changeover and one hour wait at 11pm, And a ticket officer saw me, after her shift as she got off another train, she decided on getting home late to her own family because she spent twenty minutes finding me a fleece blanket and making me a cup of tea. this woman deserves more.

the early morning arrived. I had got to London. I went to Paddington underground, I was naive and very sick - a busy train station is not the place you go to end your life.
It was incredibly busy, I lent myself over the platform edge, locking eyes with a driver who reminded me strangely of my grandad, as a gentleman with the quickest reactions I’ve ever encountered grabbed my right arm and saved my life. Train drivers deserve more, for being the collateral in ending I’ll peoples lives with their machinery.

after this I carried on my way, found an abortion clinic in Richmond who undertook second trimester terminations and I went home. By train. In a heatwave. After surgery. That very same day.

it was summer, it was full to bursting. I was I don’t know what. I couldn’t get to my bag. My tummy hurt, my boobs were leaking, I thought I was going to die. I went to the bathroom, and the cleaner got me sanitary towels from her own bag as i had none. she deserves more

when I got home, Geoff, the ticket man, who has worked in our office all of my living memory watched me hobble off the train. He told me I looked peaky, but I said it was just my perioud, but he said he’d not long seen my mum, walking the dog, and knew she’d loop round again, soon so he waited for her, and called her across the way, she in turn called my dad and we all went home in the car. Geoff the ticket man deserves more.

these people face job loss, danger and decimation of a service that keeps us going
these people were beacons of light in the most harrowing time of my life.
the changes to train travel will cost lives.
they will stop people accessing rail, and I stand with RMT

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kistanbul · 21/06/2022 15:08

I support the strikers.

Throckmorton · 21/06/2022 15:09

Oh my word. I hope you are in a better place now, and I'm so glad you are here. Thank you for your words about RMT!

Ahgoonyegirlye · 21/06/2022 15:13

I could give you 100s of examples where the staff barely did the minimum… and quite a few were they were awful but that’s neither here nor there.
still, whichever RMT marketing/PR person you are nice use of personification!

sunlovingcriminal · 21/06/2022 15:13

I support the strikers.

Assistanttotheregionalmanager · 21/06/2022 15:14

ok

darisdet · 21/06/2022 15:15

Well said, OP.

I too support the strikers.

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 21/06/2022 15:18

Um - OK.

So no members of any other profession would have helped you?

PaddingtonBearStareAgain · 21/06/2022 15:18

Ahgoonyegirlye · 21/06/2022 15:13

I could give you 100s of examples where the staff barely did the minimum… and quite a few were they were awful but that’s neither here nor there.
still, whichever RMT marketing/PR person you are nice use of personification!

Comes accross that way doesn't it.

I'm genuinely glad you got the help you needed however OP.

My experience as someone with a disability is very very different

frydae · 21/06/2022 15:21

to start I will say, RMT isn’t a union full of drivers

This part is correct. Drivers have their own union, Aslef.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 21/06/2022 15:48

I support them becausei support worker's rights.

Fairyliz · 21/06/2022 15:49

Over the years I have received help from various people in different occupations. I don’t suppose some of them would be able to help me today because they can’t get to work.

ForTheLoveOfSleep · 21/06/2022 15:50

I'm sorry you went through that OP. But the RMT has nothing to do with it. You were lucky enough to encounter some wonderful people who just happen to be RMT workers.

Ahgoonyegirlye · 21/06/2022 15:55

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AnneLovesGilbert · 21/06/2022 15:59

Riight.

Dotjones · 21/06/2022 16:01

All rather pointless because people can just as easily pile in with stories of unhelpful, rude and/or incompetent rail staff.

E.g. the rude ticket inspector who stopped me as I was leaving a station one day (quiet station with no barriers so didn't usually have to show ticket). As I rummaged in my bag for that day's ticket it fell to the ground. Rude ticket inspector immediately stamped on it with his foot. I said "I think that ticket which fell on the floor is my one for today, please could you move your foot" - first he insisted he wasn't standing on it, then dragged his foot sideways on the platform surface so the ticket fell onto the tracks. It was a completely unnatural motion, no way it could have been an accident.

Or the guard who gave the signal for the train to leave while a woman was ushering her children through his door. She'd wheeled a pushchair and child in and was just grabbing her other child when he closed the door with her outside. Luckily someone saw what the guard was doing and rang the emergency alarm.

Or the driver whose train I was on when a bunch of stops were cancelled mid route. No announcement of that happening, which led to a huge number of pissed off customers as the train sailed through station after station.

FriedTomatoe · 21/06/2022 16:02

I support workers' rights too. I support the workers who are on shit money, experience poor working conditions and those who don't have the option of striking.

As a result, I don't support this strike and I'm so fed up of their attitude - literally always on strike. When there are people living below the bread line and people who need transport to get to work, it feels wrong and so badly timed.

I'm actually really angry about it.

Bluebellsand · 21/06/2022 16:04

I don't who you are. But I support anyone who want better rights. I'm kind off shocked at people who don't support their fellow workers. Yes, it might impact your work severely for the days the strikes happens, but this is a lot of people livelihood we are talking about.

Hoppinggreen · 21/06/2022 16:05

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ThisSceptredIsle · 21/06/2022 16:08

Ahgoonyegirlye · 21/06/2022 15:13

I could give you 100s of examples where the staff barely did the minimum… and quite a few were they were awful but that’s neither here nor there.
still, whichever RMT marketing/PR person you are nice use of personification!

This is a particularly sneering and mean-spirited response. In the spirit of that -no doubt it's from Tory Head Office.

PaddingtonBearStareAgain · 21/06/2022 16:08

Yes, it might impact your work severely for the days the strikes happens, but this is a lot of people livelihood we are talking about.

The strikes are effecting the livelihoods of those that can't get to work etc.

It is effecting children and their exams.

It isn't just RMT workers whose livlihoods matter.

TFPNeighbours · 21/06/2022 16:09

Without causing offence they are hundreds of kind hearted people in all sorts of work industries do they not deserve a pay rise?

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