Met up with a man from tinder (we’d talked for a while before that, text and phone calls), the date was good but no spark and I felt that feeling was mutual and we didn’t have a second date but still text and called each other. Could easily talk for an hour together. I liked him but as a friend.
I suffered the loss of a family member just before covid and he’d lost his dad quite a few years ago. I was really low one night and I called him as thought he’d know what I was going through. He cancelled the call so I text to ask to speak to him when he was free, said I was really low. He said no my girlfriend wouldn’t like that and blocked me.
Firstly I didn’t know he now had a girlfriend and if out of respect he didn’t want to talk then I understand - I just felt he could have been kinder.
Moved on with my life. A year later he text me saying how are you? I ignored. He text again to say I was rude. Then blocked me.
Now he’s text again (clearly unblocked me) saying things like “I took your advice” (no idea what’s advice I ever gave him) and then saying he knows I’m reading the messages and then I’m rude for not responding.
He’s just messaged now saying “is this (my name) from (my city) - on WhatsApp where it’s clearly my display photo so he knows the number isn’t being used by someone else.
I’m so confused. I think he’s likely broken up with his girlfriend but he didn’t show interest in me before her anyway. Also don’t think he was with her when we met up as he clearly had no issue telling me he had a girlfriend so didn’t try and hide it. I don’t get why he keeps trying to bait me into talking to him.